Flirting with women

Posted on January 16, 2012 2

(Photo taken of me in Sicily..plenty of flirting takes place on this beautiful island)

Did you know that most women love to be in the company of a flirt?

-A flirt makes the woman feel good without coming across as creepy

– A flirt gives a hint of his desire for the woman

– A flirt gives a hint of what might happen rather than a guarantee of what WILL happen

– A flirt enjoys being around women and making them feel good

So many men want to achieve all the above points, but because they have a lack of experience or simply an unfortunate case of not knowing HOW TO FLIRT,they consequently decide that since they are not a natural at this, then it’s best to stay well clear of flirting entirely !

and FLIRTING CAN BE COMPLETELY CONTRIVED and still produce effective results.

In this video I share with you just one of the 4 points you need to remember if you want to obtain powerful results with women by flirting.
Having first hand experience of men flirting with me, I am now able to break it down to an exact format, which ANY one can apply..


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How to flirt with women

You see, here’s the thing. Flirting is something that encompasses everyone and is a big part of the dating game. While it is often said that women flirt more than men because they know how to flip their hair, bite their lips, and touch men when needed, men can also learn a lot about women flirting and use what they’ve learned for their own.

The first thing that you have to keep in mind is that if you want to flirt with women, your intentions have to be a-sync with them. This means that you’re willing to be in the same wavelength as they are, and like in a computer’s parent node, you don’t just want to be a doom and control everything, although some guys function better that way, but you’re willing to fulfill your girl’s dreams and allow yourself to make her more than just a page in your book, so she’d want to give you the time of day.

Start Right

You can start by cracking up jokes and being funny. Marilyn Monroe once said that it’s so easy for women to give you what you want and do what you want them to do if you only know how to make them laugh and make them feel good about themselves. They also like it when they get to have a proper conversation with you where they get to learn something from you and vice versa. Sure, guys often don’t like to talk, but as a guy, it’s just right that you open yourself up to the woman you like and you find something you can talk about instead of just letting the woman do everything. In terms of talking, you can start with a simple text—and let it go on from there. The key is to follow through with your words and make sure that there’s some consistency.

Reading could also help you out a lot. You should read some tips about gaining confidence without being arrogant, and while making sure that you use the right words to get a woman’s attention. In a lot of ways, learning how to read body language is essential, too. There are times when women wouldn’t like to talk to you, or make use of gestures that may be confusing at first but once you understand them, you’ll know more about girls, too. All you have to do is give them your attention and they’ll think that you’re a good guy—and you’re willing to do what’s right for them, which they find attractive, and this way, they might think of inviting you home!

Follow Through

Next, in order to attract girls, make sure that you don’t leave them hanging. Girls find it hard to trust to begin with, so you have to make them feel that they’re your world not just through words but through actions. Don’t confuse them. If you want to make them smile, then don’t give them the feeling that it’s all just a game between you two and that you no longer mind them. It’s important to create a sense of consistency and make sure that you’re willing to lend her a helping hand when needed because this is a big sign of love—and girls hate it when they can’t feel and sense love and when you send them mixed signals!

Then, in order to understand what they want, you have to put their priorities ahead of your own because they want undivided attention. Share a piece of your heart with them instead of keeping all your feelings in a container. More so, there are also times when you should avoid talking to other girl’s online, or giving info to everyone about what you have. Some girls need privacy, too!

If you’re going to meet up, do so in a location that’s favorable to her so she’d feel safe. Get some advice from her friends or people who know her so you’d know what to do, then make her feel special by setting up the date in an unforgettable way. Prepare her favorite food for her, watch a movie that she likes, and make her feel like the most important person in the world at that moment.

Know what to do

Avoid touching her when she’s not comfortable yet, look her in the eyes so she’d see how sincere you are, and stop checking your phone! Remember that she’s with you now and that’s what you have to focus on, and you can just check your social media notifications later. Notice everything about her and give her compliments—a true man won’t be afraid of making a girl feel special and is not afraid of being nice! And if you’re only starting dating, please refrain from saying negative, rude, or unnecessary comments. Most girls are sensitive and they hate hearing things that make them feel awful about themselves, especially from people they’re not that comfortable with yet. Don’t sabotage the relationship before it even starts!

You can also learn a lot from media. Watch movies or a video or two, read books, and listen to songs and you’ll learn a thing or two about flirting and dating with women. The key is to get some tips from these things then make them your own so your girl will see that you’ve actually taken time to learn more about what she likes, and you don’t just stay as the jerk that you are. No matter what women say, it’s still romantic for them to see that a guy’s willing to be a better man for them!

Go Big

Relationships are fun, but if you want to take them to the next level, then make sure that it’s all not for sure. Plan what you want to do and where you want your relationship to go. And, make sure you’re willing to do the big moves and make grand gestures. No matter how cheesy they sound, girls love them, and if you want a girl to like—and love—you, then you have to be deserving!

Good Luck!

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