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Shopping Malls are great places to attract women. In the past many of my students have even requested to focus on gaming in shopping malls as they knew they are the most popular day time spots for women to hang out in back in their home town/country.
Although I believe you can pick up women in most places if you have the right technique and it is with the right girl at the right time there are certain places where success is much more guaranteed. I have the advantage, being a woman, to understand how women feel about men talking to them in certain areas, when it is creepy or annoying as opposed to being fun or exciting. I recommend shopping malls because of a number of reasons;
You are far more likely to stop a girl to approach her than in the street.
Unlike street game, women tend to go to shopping malls to spend time, often hours on end. We go to leisurely shop and relax, have something to eat and meet friends. In contrast, many people in the high street are passing through on the way to somewhere else. So when you stop and approach a girl she says; “Sorry, I’m in a rush!” before she’s even given you a chance. Sounds familiar? In shopping malls, this may still happen, but it is far more unlikely, as they know it will sound like an excuse…really, who goes to shopping mall on the way to work?
Instant dates are far more likely.
Getting an instant date in a shopping mall can be much easier for the sole reason that the woman feels safer not having to leave the comfort of the shopping mall. When a guy requests that we get a coffee with him, we do have the little voice in the back of our heads saying “Where am I going with a complete stranger? What am I doing?” This can be an exciting feeling but it can also cause a negative anxiety that may make more reserved women decline the offer. However, in a shopping mall, you can take her to a coffee shop within the store, so there is no worry about where she may end up being dragged, as horrific as that may sound.
Having an instant will only give you more opportunities to get to know the girl and use all your best moves on her. Number closes are much more likely to be solid and follow up dates much more likely to happen.
Direct and Indirect approaches are both great!
When is the best time to tell a girl she looks “Absolutely stunning”? Or tell her that “she’d look so hot if she wore this little black dress”? When she’s standing in front of mirror admiring a dress that she’s holding up against herself of course. Shopping malls (as the title would imply) have a lot of shops! There are especially a lot of women’s clothing shops, take your pick and say that you were looking for your (female) friend when you noticed this girl and had to go and say hi. Girls want to be told how great they look when buying new clothes, we even love it when we’re told by shop assistants, and they’re just trying to sell us things! Think how much we’d like it from a complete stranger.
Similarly, if you prefer indirect approaches. You can use all sorts of excuses such as “I’m shopping my for my friend Chloe’s birthday, you look like you have a really beautiful style think you could recommend something?”
She may think you’ve confused her with a shop assistant, but reassure her that you just really admired her style and don’t want some assistant to sell you the most expensive thing in the shop. If you have a wing girl on hand, it is great to go into shops with them, go to the target point back at your wing girl “Hey, you see my friend Natasha there, it’s her birthday tomorrow and I completely forgot, you look like you’ve got a really great, style…think you could recommend something she’d like?”
Having the wing girl there, is not only social proof but if the target doesn’t believe your story then you can always call your wing girl over to prove to her that she is actually your friend.
In conclusion, shopping malls are a great place for socialisation and pick up. All types of women go to shopping malls, unlike going to a bar or club in the evening or museum/art gallery in the day time. You can meet any kind of girl, with any sort of interests. You can use most types of techniques and have a range of a shops and places, sights and sounds to comment on to girls, there are a hundred excuses to talk to the women there and no reasons not to.
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