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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

How to start a conversation with a girl

By the world’s leading female dating expert for men KEZIA NOBLE.

The three most common sticking points that men come to me with are:

a) Getting over their initial nerves of talking to a woman and overcoming approach anxiety

b) Sexual escalation, which is literally the ability and understanding of how to ‘make a move on a woman’ and show her your intention. ( This includes flirting, seduction and going for the KISS)

c) Conversation skills and conversational material.

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So what do you say to a woman when you see her across a crowded room?

What is the perfect opening line you can use on that girl who works in the same building as you?

What’s the best way to start a conversation with a girl you really like?

These questions are VERY common, and the good news is that there are a MULTITUDE of ways to start up a conversation and most importantly, make it last long enough for her to gain interest and desire you!

Myself and my team of expert instructors ( both male and female) have been showing men from across the globe how to do this through our regular BOOTCAMPS and SEMINARS and of course on my 7- DAY MASTERY COURSE.
However, if you are unable to attend one of our worldwide events or courses, then here are some tips to help you:

1) Decide on the style of your opening line. Is it going to be DIRECT or INDIRECT? Direct is when you convey your intention towards the girl RIGHT AWAY. This usually means giving the girl a cool and unique compliment. The trick here is to change the subject straight away after you have given her the compliment by introducing yourself. If you leave the bridge too long, it will come across as too intense.
A direct opening line shows a woman that you are confident and if executed correctly it will make her feel good about the interaction.

2. Know your options. If you do not have the confidence yet to explore direct approaches , then using an ‘indirect’ conversation starter can be a great alternative.
Here are some examples

“ Hey, the music here is pretty lame tonight, do you think the DJ takes requests?”

“ Where did you get your shoes from? My friend Katy would love them and it’s her birthday soon so…”

“You always look so happy, even on monday mornings. It’s kinda cool because most people here look so miserable” ( For the office)

“Are there any where good to eat around here”? ( when she makes a suggestion, deliberately disagree with her choice and let the conversation move towards food, cuisine etc.. this surprisingly can lead to countries and holidays VERY quickly)

“My friends wants to have a ‘themed costume party’ this weekend..any suggestions? – PLEASE don’t say Super heroes, because everyone has suggested that”

There are literally hundreds of opening lines both direct and indirect that you can use for ANY occasion on any girl that can be found HERE

3. Replace words with ‘hooks’ Consider whatever her response is as HOOK. This is the main ingredient of the secret that I have shared with many men out there who used to suffer from running out of things to say with women too quickly, or who could never find that killer line to start a conversation!
THE 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM is by far the most powerful and advanced conversation system out there, and is really something ALL men should have if they want to increase their success rate with women.

4. Make sure you make IMPACT. Ever been rejected because you were just too much of a ‘nice guy’? The nice guy is often mistaken for the GREAT GUY, but in fact, the ‘nice guy is just a polite way of describing someone as BLAND, FORGETTABLE and REPLACEABLE.
Again, the 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM and my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD set, will FREE you from getting into that dreaded predicament where the girl rejects you because you’re just ‘such a nice guy’ or because she wants to have you ‘as just a friend’

THE ULTIMATE SYSTEM THAT WILL INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

THE GUY WHO WAS REJECTED FOR BEING TOO NICE, NOW GETS ALL THE WOMEN HE WANTS

ARE YOU A NICE GUY WHO NEVER GETS THE WOMEN?

DO YOU ALWAYS RUN OUT OF THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH WOMEN?

The 10 hook lead system DVD SET will show you EXACTLY what to say to a woman in any situation, and how to keep that conversation going for long enough to increase her desire for you.
Find out more about this amazing system which is changing the success rate of men from across the world HERE

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

ONLINE DATING ADVICE FOR MEN

IGNORE all those online dating tips that magazines and so called dating coaches dish out! Most of them have an agreement or an affiliation with one of the major online dating companies and are just feeding you GENERIC and INEFFECTIVE advice in order to promote a certain online dating website.

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I went undercover on the online dating websites for 4 WHOLE MONTHS, putting into practice all the techniques and structures that I share with my students to find out WHICH ONES WORK and WHICH ONES DO NOT WORK.

After many trials and errors, I was able to pin point exactly what men needed to do in-order to gain MAXIMUM results from online dating.

SUCH AS..

. Constructing the most appealing and attractive profile without telling a single LIE

. Creating the most powerful opening message that would literally hook the girl in as if it she was put under a spell of some sort.

. Applying powerful patterns and words that would anchor her desire in wanting to get to know you more and most importantly, will increase her buying temperature.

. The many ways to secure an actual date with one of the many beautiful and available women that you will contact via ANY online dating website.

All of these powerful methods and secrets can be found in my ebook ‘ONLINE DATING SUCCESS FOR MEN’
This is the ultimate GUIDE for ANY man who wants to attract as many beautiful women from online dating.

Here are a few tips to get you started:

TIP 1: Make sure your profile page describes your passion and reasons for your choice in work or what your hobbies are. We all like swimming, we all work in an office, we all like traveling, but WHY we do them or why we like something is far more interesting for women to hear.

TIP 2: Make sure your message is not GENERIC. In the e-book ‘Online dating success for men’ I share with you all the messages you should NOT send, and of course the type of message that will draw women to you. The key here is to make impact, whilst not coming across as too eccentric or weird. It is a fine balance, and probably the pat that men struggle with the most.

TIP 3: ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Men tend to let the online interaction drift , and consequently they end up NOT meeting up with the woman. You obviously don’t want to suggest meeting up straight away, however, leave it too long and she will get too used to the notion that you’re just another online buddy she can talk to . The ebook ‘Online dating success for men’ will show you a multitude of ways to secure a date with women that you connect with online.
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THIS EBOOK WILL CHANGE YOUR CURRENT LEVEL OF ONLINE DATING SUCCESS, AND TAKE IT TO A WHOLE NEW CHAPTER.

Here’s what people are saying who have the book:

“ I never even have to leave my house to pick up girls anymore. I just shoot out a few powerfully constructed messages to the women I want to date or sleep with,and within a few days, I’m meeting them in restaurant or bar and eventually sleeping with them. This ebook has handed me the dating life I always craved for”

Brad , 24, Los Angles

“I spent 3 years on numerous online dating sites, trying out different methods and messages, and was forever changing my profile photo and altering my online profile information. NOTHING WORKED. That was until I read Kezia’s book ‘Online dating success for men’ Now I know exactly what to do, and best of all, I don’t have to ever tell a single lie”

Howard , 32, London

“ I’m a 37 year old business man, and my work means I really don’t have time to go out to bars and clubs. I’m wealthy and attractive and am successful at what I do, but being so busy made it hard for me to meet beautiful women who I considered good enough to be with me. I spent a fortune on dating coaches and online experts, and it really was a case of throwing too much money on a problem which was solved just buy getting myself this ebook. I have had a lot of women in my bed as a result of Kezia’s ebook, and now I’m pleased to say, that I have found the most wonderful woman I have ever met by using the tactics that this ebook gave me- THANK YOU KEZIA”

Max, 37, Zurich.

STOP WASTING TIME AND START GETTING INSTANT RESULTS FROM ONLINE DATING

For more information about the ‘ONLINE DATING SUCCESS FOR MEN’ e-book, which has helped THOUSANDS of men get the women they desire..follow THIS LINK

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

HOW TO TELL IF A GIRL LIKES YOU

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Have you been wasting your time looking out for signs and signals from women you like , that only seem to happen in movies?
Chances are you have ended up convincing yourself she is not interested in you because she failed to send you all those obvious signals that you have been told happens when a woman is attracted to a man! The truth is, indicators of interest ( I.O.Is) vary from woman to woman, and some of them can be really hard to spot or even misleading!
In this video, I get to expose some common myths that so called pick up artists advise their pupils in regards to interacting with women.
But here’s the best part!
In this video I will be showing you how to make a move on a girl,and how to deal with a potential negative response and actually MAKE IT WORK TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!

Enjoy the video

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

                                   HOW TO ATTRACT YOUNGER WOMEN

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If you are over the age of 38, then this video I made is PERFECT FOR YOU.
In this video I show you how you can attract younger women, WITHOUT coming across as SLEAZY or CREEPY.

enjoy!

If you want to start increasing your success rate with women, then make sure you check out the 7-day Mastery course or the Bootcamps that Kezia and her team are holding all year round.

For more information about Kezia and the team, and to get your questions answered click this link: DATING COACH

 

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Hey everyone

Here is my recent TV interview with Sunrise TV, Australias most watched daytime show.
This was a LIVE interview, so be aware that there is an inevitably slight time delay between the hosts questions and my answers.

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This would be a good time to mention, that finally I will be coming to Sydney in 2013, to hold my FIRST EVER Australian bootcamp. Keep an eye on THIS PAGE which lists the dates and locations of our international bootcamps. This is updated regularly.

Enjoy the show

(I had no idea what questions they were going to throw my way)

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What better way to DISCOVER how to get a woman into your bed than from a woman!

The secrets of a pick up artist to getting ANY woman you want in to bed can be found the ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET.
Here are a few powerful tips that will help you get started:

1. Make her feel desired

Make her feel desired but do this SPORADICALLY! Us women love to feel sexually desired, but if a man overwhelms a woman with this, then the novelty can wear off too quickly. Make sure that each time you look into her eyes and communicate your intention and what you want to do to her , that you immediately break rapport, by changing the non-verbal energy and the topic to something less intense and more platonic, as if nothing happened. I like to call this method ‘push-pull’. It’s a method I share with my students who have al gone on to tell me how much it has helped them! This method puts her in a mini state of limbo, and leaves her wanting more!

2. Convey the fact you have lots of women to choose from

Most women will tell you NOT to do this! But the truth is, women are usually attracted to men who have an abundance of women in their lives. It might initially annoy or concern us, but ultimately it makes us so attracted to them!

In order to achieve this, AVOID talking about your actual desire for other women, and instead, have a few pre-selected anecdotes about girls you know or have dated. But never make it seem you have an interest in them, because this will only provoke her anger.The aim is for her to agknoweldge that you have desirable women in your life and in your past, as this will produce just the right amount of jealousy in her, and as a result it will encourage her to want to impress you. A man who has conveys the fact that he has other women to choose from, demonstrates something I like to call ‘PRE-SELECTION’ and possessing this asset can literally seal the deal!

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3. Be totally unapologetic about what you want in bed!

Again, my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET explains how you can get a girl to do anything you want in bed, but the principal behind this that you need to remember in order to make it work, is to have and to communicate a totally unapologetic attitude to what you find a ‘turn on’.
Us women are so attracted to men who know exactly what they want in bed! However, if you show any uncertainty or embarrassment when conveying to a girl what you want in bed, then this will result in TURNING HER OFF. So remember to be bold when telling her what you want, and that boldness and unapologetic attitude, will convey your sexual confidence ,and it is PRECISELY hat sexual confidence that us women are searching for!

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4. Create an ideal setting.

Now this might sound like common sense, but you would be surprised by how many times guys GET THIS so wrong! Always make sure that the place where you are taking the girl back to, is ready for SEX!

LIGHTING: Make sure you have flattering light. Most guys do not bother to invest in just a simple ‘light dimmer’ and regard candles and lamps as an unnecessary waste of time. However, women tend to be usually self conscious about their bodies and prefer flattering soft lighting more than the choice of either pitch black darkness or a bright and unflattering light!

SUPPLIES : make sure your refrigerator and kitchen cupboards are filled with quick and easy to prepare food and drinks! You dont want her to find excuses such as:”Im hungry can we order some food?” or “Do you have anything to drink besides beer?” Always keep the momentum going, and never allow easily avoidable things become an issue.

CLEAN AND FRESH: Make sure your room/apartment is clean and tidy. Women love their creature comforts, so AGAIN do not let something as trivial as unchanged sheets or an empty pizza box become an excuse for her to not sleep with you!

5. Use future projections!

Women do not want to feel they are being used.They need some sort of reassurance that you will want to see them again. Rather than using logical persuasion on her, or coming across as desperate by promising her that you want to see her again! Simply throw in a few calculated ‘future projections’ such as:

“I Know this great Italian restaurant which serves the best desserts, I have to take you there”

or

“I’m looking forward to seeing you when its winter/summer I want to see how you dress”

These are ‘throw away’ and ‘playful’ future projections that plant the seed in her mind that you will both see each other again, without you coming across as desperate and without actually making any promises you can’t keep.

There are literally hundreds of more tips, skills, methods and insights I can share with you, in far more greater detail in my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD SET which has helped thousands of men attract the women they desire. Contained within these DVDs are the most powerful skills and secrets you can possess. I give you the most HONEST and DIRECT insight into the female mind.
Avoid the usual generic dating advice most dating coaches dish out,and instead CHOOSE the truth and secrets you need to hear!

If you want to start increasing your success rate with women, then make sure you check out the 7-day Mastery course or the Bootcamps that Kezia and her team are holding all year round.

For more information about Kezia and the team, and to get your questions answered click this link: DATING COACH

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

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What a question!

I show guys the many ways to get a girl attracted to them. Since 2006 I have helped over 7000 men across the world attract women, showing them techniques, such as how to get a women in to bed. More of those skills and insights can be found in my book ‘Noble Art Of Seducing Women’ or my many DVDs and e-books which can be found on my PRODUCTS PAGE.
However, there are 5 main principles you need to remember if you want to get a girl to like you.

1. Always be closing!

If you don’t keep in mind your aim, which is of course to get her to become attracted to you, then you will end up in that dreaded ‘friend zone’ ! She will inevitably see you as just another ‘nice guy’.

Start showing a woman your desire for her early on in the interaction.

This does NOT mean you should make an ACTUAL move on her too soon! Instead, it means that you need to subtly make her aware of your intention. She needs to agknoweldge your desire towards her. This can be done through ‘double sided’ compliments and other effective innuendoes. The only reason you delay going in for the kiss or sealing the deal is because of your fear of rejection which is intwined with your fear of coming across as creepy or sleazy.However, the more excuses you make to not go for it, and the longer you delay it, then the more likely it is that she will reject you! This is because you would have unintentionally created a ‘Mr Nice Guy’ persona and would have inevitably established a platonic relationship , and hitting on her will total be incongruent with that relationship you mistakingly created!

2. Never be too available

Men and indeed women too, tend to make the mistake of becoming to available and eager when they meet someone they really like. This results in the other one taking them for granted, and to be completely honest with you, it reeks of desperation. A girl might say she likes a guy to call her and be available to spend lots of time with her, but in reality, women love to chase the guy and they respect him a whole lot more when he has demonstrated to them that he has a busy life and a fully booked diary of social events.

Make sure she appreciates the time she gets to spend with you, and in time, become more available, just make sure you don’t do it too soon!

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3. Keep her second guessing

Women are less attracted to predictable men. This does not mean you need to adopt an erratic behavior! Instead, you can achieve an air of attractive unpredictably by working on your conversation skills.
I teach men how to make impact on women through their conversation techniques in my 10 Hook Lead System DVD SET and one of the many effective tips that I teach in the DVDS and to the men who come on bootcamps that you can apply, is simply to replace the usual dull and predictable questions you ask women with something more dynamic, that snaps her out of her ‘auto pilot mode’.

For instance when she tells you what her job is, avoid the usual bland responses such as:
“How long have you been doing that for?”
OR
“ Do you like it?”

WITH:

“Tell me three things you need to be to be good at what you do”

OR

“Is that something you wanted to do when you were young? If not, what was it you always wanted to be?”

(There are literally hundreds of interesting responses to this one)

These alternatives will INSTANTLY gain her interest in the interaction,and will make you stand out from all the other guys who usually end up boring her within the first few minutes.

When you demonstrate the fact that you are ‘different’ from the other guys, she will be more inclined to want to get to know more about you, so when you tell her what you do for a living, or what your interests are, MAKE SURE you deliver your answers with originality! This will add a dynamic energy to the interaction and will keep her second guessing in regards to what you will say next.

Working on your conversation skills, picking your questions wisely and delivering unpredictable responses will create a powerful hairline shift in her perception of you.

4. Do not be one dimensional!

When you’re talking to a girl you like, make sure you add elements of the ‘past’ and the ‘future’ . What do I mean by this? Most guys just have chit-chat style conversations with girls which focus predominately on the ‘present’ However, if you include some preselected anecdotes that help to illustrate your interesting past, and a few positive ‘future projections’ such as your hopes, dreams and ambitions, you will not only make more of an impact on her, but you will also be conveying to her a more multi dimensional character which will come across much more intriguing and attractive.

5. FLIRT!

Flirting makes us feel good and more importantly, if done correctly, it can shift the whole interaction with a woman to a whole new level. In my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD set I explain in great detail how you can flirt with any woman, and from there, turn the initially harmless flirting into full blown sexual escalation.

If you avoid flirting with a woman entirely, she will be more likely to perceive you as potential ‘friend material’ which is something YOU DO NOT WANT.

Men often avoid flirting with a woman because they convince themselves that it will some how make them across as creepy or sleazy, and this fear is usually a direct result of not actually knowing how to flirt! Flirting must be done sporadically and the aim of flirting is to shift the platonic interaction into something more seductive. In THIS VIDEO I touch on the art of flirting.

If you want more detailed structures and techniques on how to flirt with women and how to sexual escalate with women and how to create desire within any girl you like then you need to CLICK HERE for more information.

If you want to start increasing your current level of success with women, then remember to check out the 12-hour PICK UP ARTIST COURSE,and the amazing 7-day PUA COURSE Where you can work with Kezia and the rest of the team!

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

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Flash your confidence not your cash.

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Why do women like rich guys? Although being spoilt and wined and dined in the finest restaurants has its perks , it does not actually create ATTRACTION. I have dated many men who have lavished money and gifts on me, and have taken me on the most luxurious holidays imaginable, and although it gave me a pleasurable experience, it did NOT on it’s own strength create attraction. Luckily I am a woman who has her own money and career and therefore I do not possess the need and hunger to have a wealthy man in my life.However, there are a lot of women out there who unfortunately see a rich man as a meal ticket and NOTHING MORE than that.
Wealthy men often are under the misconception than they can literally buy the woman’s attraction and even their love. Although money might KEEP a certain type of woman in your life it will NEVER guarantee attraction or love on its own merit alone.

But let us for a moment take out of the equation the women who are solely on a quest to find a walking credit card , and instead, explore the reason for why many women ( including wealthy women or women who have no ulterior motives ) become so attracted to rich guys.
It is because wealth usually indicates that the man has a certain level confidence. Now of course this is not always the case, however, I want to ONLY address that INITIAL reason for why women are drawn to rich guys which is the confidence he exudes that usually comes with wealth.
Usually wealthy men have accumulated their wealth through success, and it’s that success which has given them confidence and on top of that, it’s their initial confidence in themselves that caused the success!
If you are wealthy, rather than bragging about how much you make or what car you own, or splashing your cash around in order to impress her,convey your confidence in what you say. and how you act.Translate your confidence via your body language and in the way you treat people around you and the way you handle the environment which you are in. This will help filter out the women looking for a rich guy to spoil them from the woman who desire a confident man regardless of how much he has in his bank account.
If you are not wealthy, then for heavens sake do NOT splash the cash you don’t have, and never pretend you are rich either. Again, your confidence is what she will be attracted to, and this can be conveyed in many ways.
Many women have fallen for the guy without even a dollar in his pocket, and to be fair, those guys will not have to wake up one morning realizing their girlfriend was only there for their money.

If you want to start increasing your current level of success with women, then remember to check out the 12-hour PICK UP ARTIST COURSE,and the amazing 7-day PUA COURSE Where you can work with Kezia and the rest of the team!

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’


What better way to learn how to attract women and how to get a girlfriend than by learning from a woman dating coach?

I know I know, most women usually dish out the same old vague and nice but essentially ineffective advice such as:

“Just be yourself”
“Be more confident”
“Make her laugh

Which in all fairness is pretty lame! And you are probably sick of your female friends giving you weak feedback. Equally, you are also probably tired of hearing the arrogant and ineffective advice from your male friends.

However, have you ever considered what it would be like to get an HONEST female opinion and an HONEST and NO NONSENSE and DIRECT insight into the female mind?
 Obtaining such a powerful tool, is something that most male dating coaches and so called pick up artists will struggle to give you.

Kezia Noble is the worlds leading female DATING EXPERT FOR MEN, find out more about how she has helped over 7,000 men across the globe to find their ideal woman here: About Kezia Noble

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND

Men might not like to admit it, but even they have convinced themselves and others that they are fulfilled with one night stands and casual flings, there is the desire and a hope that one day they will find the woman of their dreams.

A man ultimately seeks that special woman who will love him, inspire him and who he can love back unconditionally.
So how can you achieve this?

Let me start by asking you this:

Will you find a girlfriend by continuously sleeping with a never-ending list of women until something just ‘clicks’ with one of them?

Will you find a girlfriend through your social circle? Whereby one of your friends introduces you to a great girl who also happens to be looking for a boyfriend too!

Will you get a girlfriend at work?

Will you meet a girl randomly in a bar or a night club or even in the local book store?

Will you find her through online dating?

The answer to ALL these questions is ‘YES’

Never listen to people who say you will NEVER meet a girlfriend in a night club or online, because nice girls looking for boyfriends don’t hang out in bars, OR only desperate or ugly women join online dating websites. These opinions are totally unfounded and untrue.

There are literally millions of men who have met their girlfriends and even their wives via nightclubs and bars, and in regards to online dating, the figures speak for themselves (21 percent of americans found their partner through online dating)

What these men who have no problem in getting girlfriends have in common, is that they have been PROACTIVE with their search for a girlfriend. Most men rely on meeting a girlfriend through friends or at work, which obviously is a common way to find a girlfriend, but it is a LAZY way, and is something you have probably already relied on for too long.

The problem with relying on meeting your future girlfriend through friends, is that eventually your friends will get older and start settling down, and by the time you hit 30-35 the frequent introductions to their single female friends will dwindle. This will leave you with the option of meeting girls in night clubs and bars or online dating anyway, so why not get the practice in before then. It’s worth mentioning here that a lot of guys come to me or my courses is because they literally are out of practice when it comes to talking to women in clubs and bars, because they had spent years relying on introductions to girls from their circle of friends. Warning: Never be out of practice, because you never know when you will need to use those skills again.

My advice is to use all the possible resources that I have listed above , BUT, and this is really important, do NOT believe that if you still haven’t got a girlfriend that it just a matter of time!

You need to not only be proactive, but you need to also KNOW exactly what to do when you actually meet a girl, in order to get her to be your girlfriend. Otherwise you will be stuck in the cycle of meeting a girl and losing her and then meeting another girl and another girl and losing them too. So many wasted chances and opportunities are something you will regret as those chances and opportunities inevitably become less and less frequent.

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Here are 5 rules you need remember in order to increase your chances of getting a girlfriend

RULE 1: “Have a clear list of what you want”

You might think that being open minded in regards to what you look for in a girlfriend will keep your options open. But in reality, you will end up coming across as the guy who will take whatever he can get! Women want to date a man who has high standards, as it makes us feel more special to be with him, and it also make us believe we have had to work for it. So make sure you have a clear idea of what you want and don’t be afraid to convey this to her. The chances are she will respect you a lot more and be more eager to please.

RULE 2: “Never be too available”

Men and indeed women too, tend to make the mistake of becoming to available and eager when they meet someone they really like. This results in the other one taking them for granted, and to be completely honest with you, it reeks of desperation. A girl might say she likes a guy to call her and be available to spend lots of time with her, but in reality, women love to chase the guy and they respect him a whole lot more when he has demonstrated to them that he has a busy life and a fully booked diary of social events.

Make sure she appreciates the time she gets to spend with you, and in time, become more available, just make sure you don’t do it too soon!

RULE 3: “Don’t ignore her after you have had sex together”

Men often avoid seeing a girl again after she has slept with him, because he convinces himself that she cant possibly be girlfriend material if she slept with him so quickly. This is a ridiculously old fashioned point of view and it could ruin an amazing opportunity of a beautiful relationship. Do you really think that because a girl says ‘NO’ to sex until a certain amount of dates have taken place, and until her friends tell her she should, and providing the the guy has purchased enough gifts for her to decide she should sleep with him, that that makes her excellent girlfriend material?????A woman following dating advice from a magazine or demanding a man takes her out on expensive dinner dates before she sleeps with him does NOT automatically mean she will be loving wonderful girlfriend.

Make sure also not to go too overboard after you have both had sex together the first time either. Next day send her a text telling her you had a fun evening and a mention your plans for the day ahead to and ask her what her plans are for the rest of the week. This shows her you are not ignoring her but that you’re also not making yourself too available either. Suggest going for dinner around a week later.

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RULE 4: “READ her”

Listen to those stories about her ex boyfriends, it might be dull, but it’s a great way to see what type of men she usually goes for. If she talks badly about her ex boyfriends and refers to them as bastards and womanizers, then take this is as a warning. This girl obviously goes for guys who treat her mean, which does not set a positive precedence for a happy relationship. Of course, she could have just had a run of bad luck, but in my experience of having a lot of female friends who endlessly complain about their heartless ex boyfriends, is that they tend to be caught up in an unhealthy cycle of being attracted to men who are no good for them.

If she speaks highly of her ex boyfriends, DO NOT get annoyed by it, instead welcome it as a sign that she has good taste in men and is still sincerely looking for a happy relationship.

RULE 5: “Let her make the first move”

What I mean by this, is that you need to let the girl bring up the idea of getting into a relationship with you, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

At some point, she will bring it up, and if she doesn’t bring it up directly, then trust me, she will make it clear to you that she’s angry about something. Rest assured that this is simply due to the frustration she feels as a result of you not making her officially your girlfriend. This is her way of communicating to you that she wants more from you, and therefore in this particular case it is perfectly ok for you to see this as a green light and to make her your OFFICIAL girlfriend.

OTHERWISE, never ask her to be your girlfriend or to make her feel cornered into making the decision to get into a relationship with you. Women want to chase a guy, they want it to be a challenge, and again this leads back to RULE 2 about never being too available.

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Kezia Noble

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