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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

How and where to meet quality women BY ALI NATURAL (head male instructor for Kezia Noble)

You have been reading about dating women. Some of the blogs may have struck a chord. You feel ready. It is time to go out there in wilderness to try your newly found powers. You even have Kezia’s iPhone app for openers. You know, in case your mind goes blank and you need a creative spark to open up a conversation. You come out of your house, looking left and right…And you ask the inevitable question: where are the beautiful and quality women at?

You are not alone fellow soul. All men asked that question at one point.

As with almost anything, the answer lies within. Answer depends on what you want in a woman; what you consider as quality women. What kind of qualities does she have? What kind of activities does she get engaged in? What does she do?

For instance, I like girls with a creative spark. Girls who spend time day-dreaming and producing beautiful stuff. I find them in galleries, exhibitions, vintage street markets, independent cinemas, theatres, etc. I am on various email lists for private showcases of inspiring artists. I have always had a soft spot for ballerinas. Thus, I go out to lounge bars and high end clubs ballerinas and dancers frequent. I make friends with girls who are flexible both physically and emotionally. They then introduce me to their good looking, single and adventure-hungry girl friends… Rest is upto your conversational skills, which I will be teaching come January 2013. Look out for this space,

Some of my good friends advise me that exotic food making classes, tango classes, after-work bars in certain areas (like Canary Wharf in London) for high-flying and ambitious people are good places to meet such women also.

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

One of my students recently bought me a gift as a token of his gratitude for helping him.

Now a lot of my students feel a desire to give myself or members of my teams gifts in order to express their appreciation for what we have done. We never expect anything in return except for his happiness and success, as we feel the best gift we can receive is the acknowledgment that we have truly turned someones life around for the better!

However, this particular student had gotten me something rather special. It was a CD with three songs on it, that he had chosen that he felt best describes the three sides to my character. When he told me this, I was thrilled and literally couldn’t wait to get home and see what songs he had chosen for me.

Now, I felt that out of the songs he had chosen for me, 2 were accurate and 1 was a strange choice. I played it a few times and even looked up the lyrics on google, to see if I had maybe overlooked something.

But what struck me like a thunderbolt, was not the songs, but the IMPACT that this guy s gift had made on me. There I was, studying and analyzing his gift like it was some sort of cryptic riddle, that held the secret that would determine my true character.when the truth was, he could have just been in a rush and put any random song for his third choice.

This is a great gift to give to a woman, as it will serve to keep you in her mind. She will no only love that personal touch to the gift, but it will also raise your value immensely!

You are expressing to her that you know her on a more intimate level that most guys she knows.

Always make sure that one of the songs you include are totally random and silly, this will confuse, and she will want to know why you chose that particular song ( women are usually very into self analyzation) In which case, you tease her and tell her you just put that song in there as a joke, which is cool. Or you can just play on it, and tell her it’s something she needs to figure out her self.

So if you want to buy a girl a gift, stay away from expensive items that provide her short term materialistic satisfaction, because regardless of how expensive the gift is, she will always value that gift more than the person who actually gave it to her.

There are a lot of gift ideas that I can share with you, but making a CD with just three songs that you feel represent her, or remind you of her, is an awesome gift to give to a girl you like.

I credit this tip to my ex student Paul.

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Girls with unusual names

The exotic alternatives to names such as Lisa,Sarah,Christine and Victoria are increasingly on the rise.
Either the parents made the choice ( my excuse) or the girls decided at some point to rid herself of the terrible burden inflicted on her, of having a name that fails to make impact and that no one will remember, or that everyone else has.
It might surprise you to know that 7 of my female friends have changed their name, and 2 of them have even changed their names twice!
Now this blog is not poking fun at the girls called:
China
Butterfly
Christmas
Tuesday
Kezia
LuLubelle
Ferrari
Zenthina
Believe me, they have had fair share of fun being made out of their names, so I’m not going to add any more to that.

What I want to to look at, is how men react to girls when they tell them their name for the first time. I know from FIRST HAND experience what it is like to have a crazy/weird/exotic ( describe it as you like) name. I used to hate it, and would insist on calling myself Louisa when I was a little girl, simply because I was embarrassed about my strange name that my parents gave me. Though off course, in time I learned to love it!
However, I get pretty bored and tend to have an immediate negative reaction to people ( women and men) who ask me to repeat it a few times, and then sometimes ask me to even spell it, or who get trapped in their head as they proceed to pronounce it three times out loud, until they get it right. From my personal pet hate are men who ignore its originality completely!
Every girl I know who has an unusual name, always says that she experiences the exact same responses from people and as a result, she too forms a slight negative reaction to them. Not a great start I think you will agree?
So next time you see a hot girl, and she happens to have an unusual name, try and AVOID the following responses

“ Can you say that again please x2” Once is OK, but not twice.
“What kind of a name is that?”
“Thats a weird name”
“Does it mean anything”
“Oh OK..my name is..”

This is what us girls don’t like hearing back when we tell guys our names. I mean come on guys, we are not a Sarah or a Janet, and secretly our names mean a lot more to us than girls with more common names, because of the experiences and reactions we have received due entirely to our unusual names. Whether we grew up learning to love them or whether we actually chose them. So stop being too ‘cool for school ‘by ignoring the unusual name, and stop treating it like some sort of an opportunity for a quick spelling test. How she spells her name adds no importance or impact to the interaction.

Instead, try the following responses:

“ Was that name fun growing up with?”
“I always thought a name determines a character- you agree?”
“At last, an interesting name, Im sick of all these Johns and Sarah’s I’ve been having to remember all night”
“Awesome name, I seriously hope you chose that..don’t tell me your parents get the credit”
“ I reckon your siblings have cool names like that too”
“Im jealous of people with cool names, they always seem to get a head start in life”
“That is the second best name I have heard” ( she will ask you what your first choice is)
You proceed to say either Christmas or Trinity, as girls always respond well to these two names for some reason.

You need to use response that are outside the box , without the need to rely on being rude or obnoxious, such as the case with a very well known pick up artist in Los Angeles who proceeded to get my name wrong on purpose all the time, and who told me it sounded like a name a stripper would call herself. That just made me think of him as a total loser, and by the way, his name is by far the weirdest name I have ever heard and it suited his ugly personality too (try and think of the sound a cat makes, and that’s what his name was)
With the choice of responses i have shared with you in this blog, you will find that by using any one of them, you will be able to take that non-eventful moment of tedious name swapping, and transition it quickly and smoothly to a full blown conversation.
She will really warm to your response to her name, as it will make impact with her without you having to lower value. BUT more importantly, it gives her an adequate amount of room to take the conversation further herself.
Never miss an opportunity guys, and an exotic/funny/crazy/unique name is often an opportunity that unfortunately goes to waste..I should know!
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Most guys believe that meeting women happens in the night. Clubs and bars are full of men earthing for women, however, have you considered meeting women in the daytime? Have you tried it and found it to be difficult?
On our 7 day MASTERY COURSE, we find that our students get much more numbers and ‘instant dates’ when approaching women in the SHOPPING CENTRES and MALLS.
In this video, which was filmed in Las vegas just before our SOLD OUT bootcamp, I go through the reasons for why Shopping mall are AMAZING places to meet girls…

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

What you should not say to a girl

1) “I bet you get hit on all the times by guys”

NO NO NO! Stop giving her so much validation, regardless of whether she gets hit on all the time or not! If you mention it, you are either immediately playing up to her ego or reminding her of the reality she faces every time she goes out to a club.
You automatically put yourself in a lower position in the interaction and plus you are essentially saying to her “ And so I’m just another one of those guys who will be hitting on you too” You gain nothing from telling her this, and in fact you will make it even harder for yourself if you do.

2) “I feel nervous..”

Never tell a girl that she’s making you nervous or convey any message that your unsure or anxious when you’re around her. A lot of guys think that this will gain them sympathy and that as a result she will somehow give him a break. Although she can indeed feel sympathy towards you, it will never result in giving you that break. In fact, she will just see you as the sweet nervous guy that gave it a shot. Girls do not sleep with guys out of sympathy! And nerves, as endearing as they might be, are not a turn on.

3) “Do you have a boyfriend?”

Never ask her this. There are many ways to find out if she is with someone, but an outright question like this will show her what your intention is way too soon, and very often girls will reply yes, even if their ‘boyfriend’ is just someone she is casually dating. As soon as she says ‘yes’, there will be a massive shift in the interaction, and that shift will not be a positive one.

4) “I bet you hear this all the time..”

Like the first point, it immediately puts you in the same category as the men who HAVE said it to her before. It also unnecessarily feeds her ego. Whatever it is that you want to say to her, say it without a hint of apology or uncertainty, and if you genuinely feel that it does sound like a cliche then try something else that is more unique.

5) “Can I have your number?”

Never say “can I” It sounds like you are asking her permission, instead there are dozens of other ways to get her number without having to use the dreaded ‘Can I..” option.
A command such as “Put your number in my phone..” will be way more effective. Always presume she has agreed without asking.

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Five best places to meet girls in the day time

(that you might not have considered..)

These are ‘day time’ scenarios, and I wanted to give an alternative to the usual places that dating coaches suggest to men in order to meet women in the day light hours.
These venues provide a great and often unseen opportunity to meet women, however, its worth mentioning that if you want to have an extensive list of ‘openers’ to use on women in these situations, then I would urge you to get yourself my NEW app which provides treasure trove of incredible opening line that fit any day time or night time scenario.

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Shopping malls

Girls are far more relaxed when shopping in malls compared to when they go shopping outdoors. This is for many reasons ( too many name) but generally shopping malls have a much more relaxed vibe about them, which will make it much easier for you when you approach a girl there.
Getting an instant date in a mall is far more easier too. When you suggest a coffee or even a bite to eat. Since the malls are packed with more coffee shops and restaurants than actual shops, you will not need to lead her away from the mall, which will psychologically make her feel a lot more safe and as a result she will be more compliant.
Another reason why malls are good for approaching women, is the safety element that the mall provides them. When guys come up to us in the street, we automatically are aware of the possibility our hand bag might be at risk, so immediately we tense up, which f course makes the whole transition from opener to a full blown interaction a lot more difficult.

Parks.

On a warm sunny day, the parks are filled with women. They could be taking their dog for a walk, or sitting on the grass enjoying an increase, and just generally basking in the good mood that the combination of parks and sunshine brings to almost everybody.
Put on sport wear, and make it seem you are just finishing a run or some exercise, as this will help eliminate the notions she might have that you’re just out in the park looking to pick up girls.
Make sure you have a valid reason for why your in that park, rather than just telling her your just walking around on your own. You could say your meeting friends, or that your on your lunch break, in which case please remember to have a coffee in your hand or some food to make that reason more believable.

Museums and art galleries.


We find that when we suggest this to our students, their initial reaction is one of cynicism to stay the least. However, once they are in are in the gallery or museum, executing their lines on the beautiful budding artist or the tourist who is just ticking the box of things to see, they realize how incredibly easy it is to build a conversation.
Think about it. Museums and galleries are brimming with potential hooks, and of course, there is always a cafe in the gallery/museum that you can take her to.
You don’t need to be an expert on art, you just need to convey an interest.

Book stores.

AGAIN, like museums and galleries, most major book stores have a cafe these days located inside them somewhere ( usually on the top floor or basement) which gives you a perfect advantage point to suggest grabbing a quick coffee before you have to go meet your friend ( false time constraint`)
The book store is a treasure trove of hooks and props that will help you come up with thousands of opening lines.
There is also a romantic notion to meeting a guy in a book store, that the girl will warm to.

Markets

Markets, now I’m not talking abut the food markets that your aunt goes to every weekend to pick up her fruit and vegetables. I am talking abut the trendy/cool ones filled with people below the age of 45. These kind f markets can actually be a great place to meet women.
This was something that one of my female instructors discovered whilst having a day off from training our students. She was approached by a few guys,and felt that the lively and interesting energy that the market conjured, made her feel relaxed and as a result she felt more open to the idea of getting involved in conversations that came her way from total strangers!
Usually these particular markets such as CAMDEN MARKET or COVENT GARDEN MARKET , SANTA MONICA MARKET , or NEW YORK CITY FLEA MARKET, have lots of food stalls accompanied by inviting tables and chairs, which are ideal when you suggest to the girl that you both sample some of the eclectic cuisine that these kind of markets are so famous for selling.
Street entertainment and music wafting through the air, add to the charm, and of course, the charm of the market and the vibe it delivers makes it that much easier for you to pick up girls.

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

This bog post was written by one of the top female instructors on the team HADASSA.. enjoy

Shopping Malls are great places to attract women. In the past many of my students have even requested to focus on gaming in shopping malls as they knew they are the most popular day time spots for women to hang out in back in their home town/country.
Although I believe you can pick up women in most places if you have the right technique and it is with the right girl at the right time there are certain places where success is much more guaranteed. I have the advantage, being a woman, to understand how women feel about men talking to them in certain areas, when it is creepy or annoying as opposed to being fun or exciting. I recommend shopping malls because of a number of reasons;

You are far more likely to stop a girl to approach her than in the street.
Unlike street game, women tend to go to shopping malls to spend time, often hours on end. We go to leisurely shop and relax, have something to eat and meet friends. In contrast, many people in the high street are passing through on the way to somewhere else. So when you stop and approach a girl she says; “Sorry, I’m in a rush!” before she’s even given you a chance. Sounds familiar? In shopping malls, this may still happen, but it is far more unlikely, as they know it will sound like an excuse…really, who goes to shopping mall on the way to work?

Instant dates are far more likely.
Getting an instant date in a shopping mall can be much easier for the sole reason that the woman feels safer not having to leave the comfort of the shopping mall. When a guy requests that we get a coffee with him, we do have the little voice in the back of our heads saying “Where am I going with a complete stranger? What am I doing?” This can be an exciting feeling but it can also cause a negative anxiety that may make more reserved women decline the offer. However, in a shopping mall, you can take her to a coffee shop within the store, so there is no worry about where she may end up being dragged, as horrific as that may sound.
Having an instant will only give you more opportunities to get to know the girl and use all your best moves on her. Number closes are much more likely to be solid and follow up dates much more likely to happen.


Direct and Indirect approaches are both great!
When is the best time to tell a girl she looks “Absolutely stunning”? Or tell her that “she’d look so hot if she wore this little black dress”? When she’s standing in front of mirror admiring a dress that she’s holding up against herself of course. Shopping malls (as the title would imply) have a lot of shops! There are especially a lot of women’s clothing shops, take your pick and say that you were looking for your (female) friend when you noticed this girl and had to go and say hi. Girls want to be told how great they look when buying new clothes, we even love it when we’re told by shop assistants, and they’re just trying to sell us things! Think how much we’d like it from a complete stranger.
Similarly, if you prefer indirect approaches. You can use all sorts of excuses such as “I’m shopping my for my friend Chloe’s birthday, you look like you have a really beautiful style think you could recommend something?”
She may think you’ve confused her with a shop assistant, but reassure her that you just really admired her style and don’t want some assistant to sell you the most expensive thing in the shop. If you have a wing girl on hand, it is great to go into shops with them, go to the target point back at your wing girl “Hey, you see my friend Natasha there, it’s her birthday tomorrow and I completely forgot, you look like you’ve got a really great, style…think you could recommend something she’d like?”
Having the wing girl there, is not only social proof but if the target doesn’t believe your story then you can always call your wing girl over to prove to her that she is actually your friend.

In conclusion, shopping malls are a great place for socialisation and pick up. All types of women go to shopping malls, unlike going to a bar or club in the evening or museum/art gallery in the day time. You can meet any kind of girl, with any sort of interests. You can use most types of techniques and have a range of a shops and places, sights and sounds to comment on to girls, there are a hundred excuses to talk to the women there and no reasons not to.

Happy gaming.

Hadassa

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

This blog post was written by MARK J, who specifically works on day game and students who suffer from approach anxiety……enjoy!

Hi guys,

Today’s blog/tip is a direct response to a video I saw on Youtube a few weeks ago. The video itself is not the issue (so don’t bother searching for it), it was the comments left below it that have forced my typing-hand. The video involved a student practising daygame. He was fairly new at it, but approaching and getting varied results. His approach was direct, polite and simple. Exactly what I myself teach. He would stop them, and say something like:

“Excuse me. Hi. I was just on my way to meet a friend, but saw you walking past, and had to come over and tell you I think you’re absolutely stunning. Hi, I’m X”

Now, we all know what a horrific troll-filled place Youtube can be sometimes, but within the mess of spam links and memes came a constant thread of critique. A slew of comments all along the lines of:

“Why are all guys in London using this line still?? It’s so boring, every girl on Oxford Street has heard it!!!!”

THIS is what I take issue with. Now, you might think that’s the most basic, simple, unimaginative opener you can use. The version above is what I would consider the “default” version of this opener, if you will. However, I am here today to defend it. Why? Because of a staple of daygame that people ignore. Honesty. So today I urge anyone practises daygame, whether beginner or advanced, not to take this out of your arsenal just yet.

Now of course, the “default” version of this opener is there as a first step, a crutch. After that, you have to take it (as with all game) and make it your own. Change the false time constraint, the compliment, tell her it’s totally random what you’re about to say, details, details, details, etc.

They key? HONESTY!!!!!!

So why is honesty so important with this opening gambit during daygame?

Remember, this is not a nightclub. She is NOT expecting this to happen. She is not with friends, no protection, no music, no alcohol. For the first 30 seconds, this is not a two-way game, it’s one-way. We are doing all the work. Therefore in these situations, ambiguity is the enemy. It leads to things like the Friend Zone, and makes it much more difficult to make our intentions clear and/or escalate.

So consider all those videos from world-famous PUA’s telling you open on the street with directions etc. Let’s say you deliver this perfectly, and then try to transition naturally. I’m not saying it never works (there are no 100%’s in pickup as we all know), but after a while, she’s going to twig what you’re doing. At this point, what do you think she’s thinking?

a) I answered you, so why are we now having this conversation about jobs/sports/music etc?

b) He wants to hit on me, but doesn’t have the balls, and thinks I don’t know what’s going on

Clearly, neither of these is good. We all know that women have the most finely tuned bullshit-detectors on the planet, so why not get all your hard work done up front?

Now, of course, I’m not saying use this approach for every set during the daytime. Those who’ve worked with me know I teach that environment will dictate your approach. What you do in a bookshop, the queue at Starbucks etc etc, is different, as each approach needs specific calibration. This is specific to daygame approach on the street.

This opener is especially good for people who are starting out, especially if you are someone that suffers from Approach Anxiety (AA). Why? Because it is the most honest expression of your feelings in the moment.

In essence, IT’S NOT A LINE AT ALL. No bullshit, no clever routine, no sleaziness, just your true thoughts out loud. As I said before, the more experienced you become, you’re going to want to customize it to fit each scenario and make it perfect for you. The more work you out into your pre-approach, the more details you can apply to this opener, which will give you more options with different targets.

So remember guys; go out there, be strong and HONEST, and you will get the results you’re looking for.

I’ll see you in the field.

Mark J

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

As some of you may know, myself and my team of master instructors and experienced wing girls, provide a course which is tailor made for who ever wishes to attend. This is the 7-day pick up mastery course, and so far, every single one of the men who have been part of this incredible week long experience, have achieved all we have promised them.
We have countless video testimonials which you can find on my youtube channel, but I really wanted to share this particular video with you.
Winston came to us, brimming with positivity, however, he was always getting stuck in the friend zone with girls who he was attracted to. They always perceived him as the cuddly,loveable,sweet guy, who would be nothing more than a friend.
We worked with him intensely, and by the 7th day he was no longer seen by women as ONLY friend material, and instead they were in his bed rather than just on his Facebook page.
Enjoy the video, and find out why Winston how changed so much, and why he is now getting incredible results with women.

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

First Impressions- For all they’re worth…

This blog has been composed by one of the wing girls on the team LOUISE
You can meet Louise at all the PUA BOOTCAMPS and the 7-DAY PICK UP MASTERY COURSE

I was recently asked if it was true that it takes women a split second to make up her mind whether or not she’ll give a guy a chance. Well, while this isn’t always the case, making a strong first impression is absolutely invaluable.

Everyone’s time is precious. When a woman is approached by a stranger she isn’t going to waste this time even entering into a dialogue with you if you don’t make a strong approach. The myth is that this first impression is based solely on looks. That is completely wrong- whilst being good looking might give you a slight natural advantage the other aspects of your approach will carry far more weight when she makes her decision whether or not she’ll give you that chance. Here are four of the most important factors to a good approach:

1) SMILE! Few things are more infectious than a smile and this automatically conveys that you’re excited to talk to her. I’m not talking about a big, toothy grin here but a genuine smile. They put people at their ease and make them relax. Also, a genuine smile brightens up anyone’s face, so you’re automatically making yourself more attractive!

2) BE UNAPOLOGETIC! Don’t, whatever you do, say sorry as part of your opener. Why should you be sorry that you’ve approached her? You just wanted to let her know she looks great, and that’s something any of us are happy to hear, even if we don’t show it. Have a strong, confident stance and don’t inflect your voice upwards at the end of your sentences. You’ll automatically come across as more confident which is one of the most attractive things about anyone.

3) GIVE HER SPACE! Invading her personal space straight away is just going to make her feel uncomfortable and will result in her trying to get away from you as quickly as she can. If, when you have stopped her, you feel you are too close, take a step back before continuing. In the same way, making your opener overtly sexual, particularly during day game, will probably have a similar effect- some experienced PUA’s find it works for them but generally to us girls it just comes across as sleazy.

4) DON’T BE OUTCOME DEPENDENT! The easiest way to forget all of the above and turn yourself back into a bag of nerves is to be focusing on that number close from the moment you open the set. How do you know at this point that you want her number? For all you know she could be an absolute nutter. Your first motive is to deliver your opener, hopefully make her smile and find out a bit about her to decide whether or not she’s worth spending your time on.

-Louise (Wing girl for Kezia Noble)

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