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Recently I was invited by Sky News to be interviewed. The subject was ‘Pick Up Artists’ and they wanted to get a female perspective on a particular story that was making huge waves.
I left the Pick Up Artist Community back in 2010 due to what I felt the slow but eventual misogynistic saturation of a community and industry that once helped many men to become better with women, in a way that did not compromise my values and ethics.
In 2010 I set up my own company, which coincided with my book launch, and am now considered to be one of the most high profile Dating Coaches in the world. I teach men the art of seduction and the skills of attraction in ways which are congruent with who they are and the values they hold.

Here is my HONEST interview with SKY NEWS: CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE FULL INTERVIEW

Kezia Noble, Dating Coach on SKY NEWS

Kezia Noble, Dating Coach on SKY NEWS

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Time to set the record straight!

Recently, you have most probably heard and read a fair amount about the Pick Up Artist Community. This is of course thanks to the media exposure that has been shone on Pick Up Artist Julien Blanc and his shocking pick up tactics. You have also have probably heard many male dating coaches defend him, or choose to remain neutral on the subject ( I believe this is due to the business affiliations they have amongst each-other) You have also most definitely heard many women rip his reputation to shreds and even call for a complete end to the Pick Up Artist Community all together.
But have you heard the honest ,first hand experience from the only woman who was once one of the major key players of the Pick Up artist industry?

In 2006 I unexpectedly entered the Pick Up Artist community/industry, and in 2010 I unofficially left the community, launched my own company and branched out to a more mainstream market that I felt was more congruent with my beliefs and principals.
This is my honest experience of what the Pick Up Community was , what it became and what it is now..

Read my FULL STORY for the Huffington Post HERE

DATING COACH KEZIA NOBLE

DATING COACH KEZIA NOBLE

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How to ask a girl out

By the world’s leading female dating expert for men KEZIA NOBLE.

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Myself and my team of expert instructors ( both male and female) have been showing men from across the globe how to do this through our regular BOOTCAMPS. SEMINARS and of course on my 7- DAY MASTERY COURSE.
However, if you are unable to attend one of our worldwide events or courses, then here are some VALUABLE tips to help you:

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1. Make sure you convey to her that you are a BUSY guy who is in demand.

Never suggest that she should choose the time and date. Instead, tell her when YOU are free. Give her a couple of days your free and add casually that you wish you had more time, but your ridiculously busy over the next couple of weeks. This will increase her buying temperature and will deliver you more VALUE.

2. Keep it casual

Tell a girl that it would be ‘cool’ to hang out or to have dinner together. NEVER make it into a big deal! Asking her out should always seem like something you just considered doing, rather than making it come across like you’ve been planning it for ages ( this might be true, but you need to conceal this AT ALL COSTS)

3. Use FUTURE PROJECTIONS

Future projection is basically the act of “painting a picture” for the girl of a future scenario you two might participate in. Essentially,it is describing a future scenario you are assuming that your relationship together will continue outside of the confines of the club/bar/street/office/college Make sure you do not paint too much of a romantic picture, as this will result in OVER KILL. Keep it playful and light.

4. Get the timing right

Always ask her out at the peak or at least the on a high point of the conversation. Most guys arrive at dead end in the interaction or an uncomfortable silence, and then they mistakingly decide to ask out the girl then. AVOID THIS.
The girl is much more likely to say yes if you have suggested a date to her when the vibe and energy of the conversation is at high point .

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REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

How to start a conversation with a girl

By the world’s leading female dating expert for men KEZIA NOBLE.

The three most common sticking points that men come to me with are:

a) Getting over their initial nerves of talking to a woman and overcoming approach anxiety

b) Sexual escalation, which is literally the ability and understanding of how to ‘make a move on a woman’ and show her your intention. ( This includes flirting, seduction and going for the KISS)

c) Conversation skills and conversational material.

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So what do you say to a woman when you see her across a crowded room?

What is the perfect opening line you can use on that girl who works in the same building as you?

What’s the best way to start a conversation with a girl you really like?

These questions are VERY common, and the good news is that there are a MULTITUDE of ways to start up a conversation and most importantly, make it last long enough for her to gain interest and desire you!

Myself and my team of expert instructors ( both male and female) have been showing men from across the globe how to do this through our regular BOOTCAMPS and SEMINARS and of course on my 7- DAY MASTERY COURSE.
However, if you are unable to attend one of our worldwide events or courses, then here are some tips to help you:

1) Decide on the style of your opening line. Is it going to be DIRECT or INDIRECT? Direct is when you convey your intention towards the girl RIGHT AWAY. This usually means giving the girl a cool and unique compliment. The trick here is to change the subject straight away after you have given her the compliment by introducing yourself. If you leave the bridge too long, it will come across as too intense.
A direct opening line shows a woman that you are confident and if executed correctly it will make her feel good about the interaction.

2. Know your options. If you do not have the confidence yet to explore direct approaches , then using an ‘indirect’ conversation starter can be a great alternative.
Here are some examples

“ Hey, the music here is pretty lame tonight, do you think the DJ takes requests?”

“ Where did you get your shoes from? My friend Katy would love them and it’s her birthday soon so…”

“You always look so happy, even on monday mornings. It’s kinda cool because most people here look so miserable” ( For the office)

“Are there any where good to eat around here”? ( when she makes a suggestion, deliberately disagree with her choice and let the conversation move towards food, cuisine etc.. this surprisingly can lead to countries and holidays VERY quickly)

“My friends wants to have a ‘themed costume party’ this weekend..any suggestions? – PLEASE don’t say Super heroes, because everyone has suggested that”

There are literally hundreds of opening lines both direct and indirect that you can use for ANY occasion on any girl that can be found HERE

3. Replace words with ‘hooks’ Consider whatever her response is as HOOK. This is the main ingredient of the secret that I have shared with many men out there who used to suffer from running out of things to say with women too quickly, or who could never find that killer line to start a conversation!
THE 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM is by far the most powerful and advanced conversation system out there, and is really something ALL men should have if they want to increase their success rate with women.

4. Make sure you make IMPACT. Ever been rejected because you were just too much of a ‘nice guy’? The nice guy is often mistaken for the GREAT GUY, but in fact, the ‘nice guy is just a polite way of describing someone as BLAND, FORGETTABLE and REPLACEABLE.
Again, the 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM and my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD set, will FREE you from getting into that dreaded predicament where the girl rejects you because you’re just ‘such a nice guy’ or because she wants to have you ‘as just a friend’

THE ULTIMATE SYSTEM THAT WILL INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

THE GUY WHO WAS REJECTED FOR BEING TOO NICE, NOW GETS ALL THE WOMEN HE WANTS

ARE YOU A NICE GUY WHO NEVER GETS THE WOMEN?

DO YOU ALWAYS RUN OUT OF THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH WOMEN?

The 10 hook lead system DVD SET will show you EXACTLY what to say to a woman in any situation, and how to keep that conversation going for long enough to increase her desire for you.
Find out more about this amazing system which is changing the success rate of men from across the world HERE

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

ONLINE DATING ADVICE FOR MEN

IGNORE all those online dating tips that magazines and so called dating coaches dish out! Most of them have an agreement or an affiliation with one of the major online dating companies and are just feeding you GENERIC and INEFFECTIVE advice in order to promote a certain online dating website.

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I went undercover on the online dating websites for 4 WHOLE MONTHS, putting into practice all the techniques and structures that I share with my students to find out WHICH ONES WORK and WHICH ONES DO NOT WORK.

After many trials and errors, I was able to pin point exactly what men needed to do in-order to gain MAXIMUM results from online dating.

SUCH AS..

. Constructing the most appealing and attractive profile without telling a single LIE

. Creating the most powerful opening message that would literally hook the girl in as if it she was put under a spell of some sort.

. Applying powerful patterns and words that would anchor her desire in wanting to get to know you more and most importantly, will increase her buying temperature.

. The many ways to secure an actual date with one of the many beautiful and available women that you will contact via ANY online dating website.

All of these powerful methods and secrets can be found in my ebook ‘ONLINE DATING SUCCESS FOR MEN’
This is the ultimate GUIDE for ANY man who wants to attract as many beautiful women from online dating.

Here are a few tips to get you started:

TIP 1: Make sure your profile page describes your passion and reasons for your choice in work or what your hobbies are. We all like swimming, we all work in an office, we all like traveling, but WHY we do them or why we like something is far more interesting for women to hear.

TIP 2: Make sure your message is not GENERIC. In the e-book ‘Online dating success for men’ I share with you all the messages you should NOT send, and of course the type of message that will draw women to you. The key here is to make impact, whilst not coming across as too eccentric or weird. It is a fine balance, and probably the pat that men struggle with the most.

TIP 3: ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Men tend to let the online interaction drift , and consequently they end up NOT meeting up with the woman. You obviously don’t want to suggest meeting up straight away, however, leave it too long and she will get too used to the notion that you’re just another online buddy she can talk to . The ebook ‘Online dating success for men’ will show you a multitude of ways to secure a date with women that you connect with online.
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THIS EBOOK WILL CHANGE YOUR CURRENT LEVEL OF ONLINE DATING SUCCESS, AND TAKE IT TO A WHOLE NEW CHAPTER.

Here’s what people are saying who have the book:

“ I never even have to leave my house to pick up girls anymore. I just shoot out a few powerfully constructed messages to the women I want to date or sleep with,and within a few days, I’m meeting them in restaurant or bar and eventually sleeping with them. This ebook has handed me the dating life I always craved for”

Brad , 24, Los Angles

“I spent 3 years on numerous online dating sites, trying out different methods and messages, and was forever changing my profile photo and altering my online profile information. NOTHING WORKED. That was until I read Kezia’s book ‘Online dating success for men’ Now I know exactly what to do, and best of all, I don’t have to ever tell a single lie”

Howard , 32, London

“ I’m a 37 year old business man, and my work means I really don’t have time to go out to bars and clubs. I’m wealthy and attractive and am successful at what I do, but being so busy made it hard for me to meet beautiful women who I considered good enough to be with me. I spent a fortune on dating coaches and online experts, and it really was a case of throwing too much money on a problem which was solved just buy getting myself this ebook. I have had a lot of women in my bed as a result of Kezia’s ebook, and now I’m pleased to say, that I have found the most wonderful woman I have ever met by using the tactics that this ebook gave me- THANK YOU KEZIA”

Max, 37, Zurich.

STOP WASTING TIME AND START GETTING INSTANT RESULTS FROM ONLINE DATING

For more information about the ‘ONLINE DATING SUCCESS FOR MEN’ e-book, which has helped THOUSANDS of men get the women they desire..follow THIS LINK

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

HOW TO TELL IF A GIRL LIKES YOU

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Have you been wasting your time looking out for signs and signals from women you like , that only seem to happen in movies?
Chances are you have ended up convincing yourself she is not interested in you because she failed to send you all those obvious signals that you have been told happens when a woman is attracted to a man! The truth is, indicators of interest ( I.O.Is) vary from woman to woman, and some of them can be really hard to spot or even misleading!
In this video, I get to expose some common myths that so called pick up artists advise their pupils in regards to interacting with women.
But here’s the best part!
In this video I will be showing you how to make a move on a girl,and how to deal with a potential negative response and actually MAKE IT WORK TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!

Enjoy the video

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Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

                                   HOW TO ATTRACT YOUNGER WOMEN

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If you are over the age of 38, then this video I made is PERFECT FOR YOU.
In this video I show you how you can attract younger women, WITHOUT coming across as SLEAZY or CREEPY.

enjoy!

If you want to start increasing your success rate with women, then make sure you check out the 7-day Mastery course or the Bootcamps that Kezia and her team are holding all year round.

For more information about Kezia and the team, and to get your questions answered click this link: DATING COACH

 

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

Hey everyone

Here is my recent TV interview with Sunrise TV, Australias most watched daytime show.
This was a LIVE interview, so be aware that there is an inevitably slight time delay between the hosts questions and my answers.

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This would be a good time to mention, that finally I will be coming to Sydney in 2013, to hold my FIRST EVER Australian bootcamp. Keep an eye on THIS PAGE which lists the dates and locations of our international bootcamps. This is updated regularly.

Enjoy the show

(I had no idea what questions they were going to throw my way)

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Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’


What better way to learn how to attract women and how to get a girlfriend than by learning from a woman dating coach?

I know I know, most women usually dish out the same old vague and nice but essentially ineffective advice such as:

“Just be yourself”
“Be more confident”
“Make her laugh

Which in all fairness is pretty lame! And you are probably sick of your female friends giving you weak feedback. Equally, you are also probably tired of hearing the arrogant and ineffective advice from your male friends.

However, have you ever considered what it would be like to get an HONEST female opinion and an HONEST and NO NONSENSE and DIRECT insight into the female mind?
 Obtaining such a powerful tool, is something that most male dating coaches and so called pick up artists will struggle to give you.

Kezia Noble is the worlds leading female DATING EXPERT FOR MEN, find out more about how she has helped over 7,000 men across the globe to find their ideal woman here: About Kezia Noble

HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND

Men might not like to admit it, but even they have convinced themselves and others that they are fulfilled with one night stands and casual flings, there is the desire and a hope that one day they will find the woman of their dreams.

A man ultimately seeks that special woman who will love him, inspire him and who he can love back unconditionally.
So how can you achieve this?

Let me start by asking you this:

Will you find a girlfriend by continuously sleeping with a never-ending list of women until something just ‘clicks’ with one of them?

Will you find a girlfriend through your social circle? Whereby one of your friends introduces you to a great girl who also happens to be looking for a boyfriend too!

Will you get a girlfriend at work?

Will you meet a girl randomly in a bar or a night club or even in the local book store?

Will you find her through online dating?

The answer to ALL these questions is ‘YES’

Never listen to people who say you will NEVER meet a girlfriend in a night club or online, because nice girls looking for boyfriends don’t hang out in bars, OR only desperate or ugly women join online dating websites. These opinions are totally unfounded and untrue.

There are literally millions of men who have met their girlfriends and even their wives via nightclubs and bars, and in regards to online dating, the figures speak for themselves (21 percent of americans found their partner through online dating)

What these men who have no problem in getting girlfriends have in common, is that they have been PROACTIVE with their search for a girlfriend. Most men rely on meeting a girlfriend through friends or at work, which obviously is a common way to find a girlfriend, but it is a LAZY way, and is something you have probably already relied on for too long.

The problem with relying on meeting your future girlfriend through friends, is that eventually your friends will get older and start settling down, and by the time you hit 30-35 the frequent introductions to their single female friends will dwindle. This will leave you with the option of meeting girls in night clubs and bars or online dating anyway, so why not get the practice in before then. It’s worth mentioning here that a lot of guys come to me or my courses is because they literally are out of practice when it comes to talking to women in clubs and bars, because they had spent years relying on introductions to girls from their circle of friends. Warning: Never be out of practice, because you never know when you will need to use those skills again.

My advice is to use all the possible resources that I have listed above , BUT, and this is really important, do NOT believe that if you still haven’t got a girlfriend that it just a matter of time!

You need to not only be proactive, but you need to also KNOW exactly what to do when you actually meet a girl, in order to get her to be your girlfriend. Otherwise you will be stuck in the cycle of meeting a girl and losing her and then meeting another girl and another girl and losing them too. So many wasted chances and opportunities are something you will regret as those chances and opportunities inevitably become less and less frequent.

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Here are 5 rules you need remember in order to increase your chances of getting a girlfriend

RULE 1: “Have a clear list of what you want”

You might think that being open minded in regards to what you look for in a girlfriend will keep your options open. But in reality, you will end up coming across as the guy who will take whatever he can get! Women want to date a man who has high standards, as it makes us feel more special to be with him, and it also make us believe we have had to work for it. So make sure you have a clear idea of what you want and don’t be afraid to convey this to her. The chances are she will respect you a lot more and be more eager to please.

RULE 2: “Never be too available”

Men and indeed women too, tend to make the mistake of becoming to available and eager when they meet someone they really like. This results in the other one taking them for granted, and to be completely honest with you, it reeks of desperation. A girl might say she likes a guy to call her and be available to spend lots of time with her, but in reality, women love to chase the guy and they respect him a whole lot more when he has demonstrated to them that he has a busy life and a fully booked diary of social events.

Make sure she appreciates the time she gets to spend with you, and in time, become more available, just make sure you don’t do it too soon!

RULE 3: “Don’t ignore her after you have had sex together”

Men often avoid seeing a girl again after she has slept with him, because he convinces himself that she cant possibly be girlfriend material if she slept with him so quickly. This is a ridiculously old fashioned point of view and it could ruin an amazing opportunity of a beautiful relationship. Do you really think that because a girl says ‘NO’ to sex until a certain amount of dates have taken place, and until her friends tell her she should, and providing the the guy has purchased enough gifts for her to decide she should sleep with him, that that makes her excellent girlfriend material?????A woman following dating advice from a magazine or demanding a man takes her out on expensive dinner dates before she sleeps with him does NOT automatically mean she will be loving wonderful girlfriend.

Make sure also not to go too overboard after you have both had sex together the first time either. Next day send her a text telling her you had a fun evening and a mention your plans for the day ahead to and ask her what her plans are for the rest of the week. This shows her you are not ignoring her but that you’re also not making yourself too available either. Suggest going for dinner around a week later.

FOR MORE EFFECTIVE TEXTS TO SEND TO A GIRL FOLLOW THIS LINK ‘TEXT GAME’

RULE 4: “READ her”

Listen to those stories about her ex boyfriends, it might be dull, but it’s a great way to see what type of men she usually goes for. If she talks badly about her ex boyfriends and refers to them as bastards and womanizers, then take this is as a warning. This girl obviously goes for guys who treat her mean, which does not set a positive precedence for a happy relationship. Of course, she could have just had a run of bad luck, but in my experience of having a lot of female friends who endlessly complain about their heartless ex boyfriends, is that they tend to be caught up in an unhealthy cycle of being attracted to men who are no good for them.

If she speaks highly of her ex boyfriends, DO NOT get annoyed by it, instead welcome it as a sign that she has good taste in men and is still sincerely looking for a happy relationship.

RULE 5: “Let her make the first move”

What I mean by this, is that you need to let the girl bring up the idea of getting into a relationship with you, NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

At some point, she will bring it up, and if she doesn’t bring it up directly, then trust me, she will make it clear to you that she’s angry about something. Rest assured that this is simply due to the frustration she feels as a result of you not making her officially your girlfriend. This is her way of communicating to you that she wants more from you, and therefore in this particular case it is perfectly ok for you to see this as a green light and to make her your OFFICIAL girlfriend.

OTHERWISE, never ask her to be your girlfriend or to make her feel cornered into making the decision to get into a relationship with you. Women want to chase a guy, they want it to be a challenge, and again this leads back to RULE 2 about never being too available.

There are lots of other brilliant little secrets that I have to share with you that will help you get a girlfriend QUICKLY.
Some of the skills and techniques I have to share are wickedly effective and produce surprisingly FAST results.

If you want to obtain these powerful secrets, be sure to check out my YOUTUBE VIDEOS or my LIVE TRAINING COURSES and of course my selection of e-books and DVDs on the PRODUCTS PAGE

I hope to see you soon

Kezia Noble

 

If you want to start increasing your success rate with women, then make sure you check out the 7-day Mastery course or the Bootcamps that Kezia and her team are holding all year round.

Have more unanswered questions about how a dating coach can help you, read more about Kezia and the team.

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Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles this is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

                                    HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS IN THE DAYTIME

Mark J is one of our TOP ‘daygame’ instructors, and specialises in helping guys get INSTANT DATES and rapid NUMBER CLOSES in the daytime. He also is an expert in helping men overcome their approach anxiety.
I hope you enjoy his latest blog post!


Hey guys,

So today’s blog is a quick one for those of you who want to go out and do some daygame. Whether it’s a full day sarge, or half an hour at lunch time, these are very important things to keep in mind.

The three main sticking points I see in students I teach are:

1. Approach anxiety
2. Running out of things to say
3. Weak/apologetic body-language

With this in mind, I thought I’d give a quick tip for each, so whatever your sticking point, you can take something from today straight out into the field.

1 – Approach Anxiety

For all you guys with AA, simple stuff today. Firstly WARM UP. So that’s a number of low-pressure sets, very simple stuff, directions etc, to get the social muscle working. Within your warm up, try experimenting with self amusement. For example, rather than directions to Starbucks ask for directions to the squirrel factory, etc. Remember, the intention for these interactions is not numbers/dates etc, it is JUST to warm up and combat AA, so making yourself laugh is a great way to relax.

Then, assign yourself MISSIONS. This is to rid agenda and OUTCOME DEPENDENCY. The mission for the day is to “Brighten her day”. How? That’s up to you. That’s the mission. Nothing more. When AA strikes, you have to FOCUS on a simple task and achieve it without letting further thought creep into your approach. Try it.

2. Running out of things to say

Ok, first up, work on your pre-frame. I want a POSTIVE PAST/PRESENT/FUTURE of why are standing where you are right now (on the street). So, for example, what you did this morning, what you’re up to now and where you’re going this evening. IN DETAIL!!!!! For now it’s just for you, but you’d be surprised how often she’ll ask, “So what are you up to?” – So be ready!”

Not only that, but pepper it with things that can be commented on. Work out the topics of conversation you are best at/find most interesting, and put them in your pre-frame. If you love music, put something musical in. Same for sports, food, art etc etc etc. Take control right from the start.

Simple Test: Be able to answer the question “Where are you off to now?” Or the longer version “What are you up to today?” in an interesting way, THAT SHE COMMENT ON. Give yourself a deadline of 10 or 30 seconds to do this, which will force you to think quickly.

3 – Weak/apologetic body-language

Focus on one aspect at a time:

Am I standing strong and upright? – never be leaning in, stand your ground.

Am I smiling? – smiling is your BEST WEAPON – whether you think it’s a cliché or not, it’s a given. You MUST smile as you approach. Not a massive toothy wide one like the Joker in Batman, as some PUA’s would have you believe, just a nice genuine smile.

Am I shifting weight from foot to foot? – if so, STOP IT. When you notice something, you can overcome and control it.

Also, when you put your hands out to stop someone, keep them low, we’re not stopping cars, or flagging a taxi. Open hands are good, they show we’re non-threatening, but keep them down near your waist.

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Bonus tip: NEVER get serious. There will be days when it all goes wrong, when nothing works. That’s just part of the game. Accept that NOW, and you have the freedom to progress.

Have fun out there, see you in the field.

MJ.

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Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS