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Why Nice Guys finish last

Who is the Nice guy?

He’s bland, forgettable and replaceable.

Women want a man who can connect with them, tease them, see their potential, make them feel desired rather than idolised and make them feel protected, but ultimately they are looking for a man of strength that they can respect.

The Nice Guy can’t fulfil any of these desires.

And here’s the headline you didn’t see coming..

YOU ARE NOT THE NICE GUY!

You are so much more than just a bland and forgettable experience, and yet like hundreds of the men who come to me, you probably made the wrong choice to market yourself as the Nice Guy because you somehow thought that you would get her by going in under the radar!

You might think that if you’re nice enough, pleasant enough and as inoffensive as possible, she’s somehow going to suddenly become attracted to you.

But I’ve got news for you!

This NEVER happens.

You can’t seduce women by going under the radar!

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What if I were to tell you that all those Nice Guy tactics you’ve been using can be instantly replaced with something so much more powerful and more authentic?

I’m Ready. Are You?

I’m ready to share with you the secret eleven principles of the attractive male .

I’m ready to share with you the twenty steps that will each take you closer to your goal.

I’m ready to show you many incredible phase shifting tactics that will help take you from being just the Nice Guy to the Amazing Guy.

But are you ready?

If you’re ready to take that step away from a reality of neediness and endless friend zones and take a bold step into a reality of abundance, self value and real results with women then check out my latest book ‘How To Make Her Want You’

I will be sharing with you some of my most powerful techniques, secrets and material that I’ve ever released.

This book is literally a step-by-step guide that will show you how to break free from the Nice Guy trap and never get friend zoned again.

Get more information about the book: ‘How To Make Her Want You’ e-book.

Did she friend zone you again?

Why is that?

Why do girls always insist that they’re looking for a nice guy, and when one comes along (like you) she friend-zones him!

I know exactly why women do this!

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It’s because they’re not really looking for a NICE GUY at all. They just say that because they think it’s the right thing to say, and because they’re usually unable to give a clear break-down of what they really want in a man.
It’s understandably frustrating to get friend-zoned again and again, and not know what actually to do in order to GET OUT of the friend-zone, or how to avoid it in the first place.

But you know what else is frustrating?

The dumb advice out there about this.

Such as:

“Just tell her how you feel”

or

“Just carry on being nice and you will find the girl who is right for you”

or

“Do something romantic and then when the moment is right, confess all your feelings to her”

This stuff doesn’t work.

In fact, if you follow any of this kind of advice then you’ll get LOCKED in the friends-zone forever.

Here’s the problem:

The nice guy is not the great guy. He’s not the guy who connects with her, makes her feel desired, keeps her second guessing or playfully teases her, and he’s not the guy who going to fu*k her like no man has she ever been with before.

Nice is an after thought, it’s a forgettable experience, and most of all it’s a trap!

Playing the Mr Nice Guy tactic is essentially just about becoming a fake and low-grade version of your true incredible self. Being Nice camouflages all your attributes, it stops you from taking action and it traps you into the friend-zone.

You are so much more than just another ‘nice guy’ and I will prove this to you.

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I will prove that you can tease her, seduce her, get her jumping through your hoops, and gain her respect without compromising any of your values,

I will prove to that there is a method that you apply to break free from any friend-zone situation, whether you’ve been friends with her for 2 weeks or even 2 years!

I can show you how to be the most attractive and dynamic version of yourself.

I can show you how to make a strong and sustained impact with women.

I can show you how to stop coming across needy and low value.

I can show you how to replace the weak Nice Guy game plan with a far more powerful system that can be applied in a way that remains completely congruent with your own personal values.

Find out how I can help you break free from the dreaded friend-zone and escape the Nice Guy Trap once and for all: HERE.
P.S

Full access to this information will be available on the 29th of September.

I’m super excited to be having my younger sister, Hadassa, back on my Youtube channel.
A recent video she did with me has received close to HALF A MILLION VIEWS, and she’s by far the most requested wing girl and female instructor on my team.

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In this video we get the chance to discuss the following:

Making sure she’s good enough for you.
Getting a girl to impress you.
Hybrid openers.
Techniques for overcoming Approach Anxiety.

Hadassa is spot on with so many of her insights and it’s always great to hear a shy girl’s perspective on dating and seduction too.

Enjoy the video, and make sure you soak up that information!

Find out more about the 7-Day Mastery Program where you can get to work one on one with Hadassa and all the other instructors on my team.
The 7-day Mastery Program is a tailor-made experience which means that you will receive persoanl one on one training with Kezia and all the expert instructors and wing girls on her team.
Remember to download your FREE brochure HERE.

He contacted us a few months before he took action and signed up for the 7-Day Mastery Program. He was understandably concerned about whether we could really help him or not.

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Some other companies he had contacted gave him the hard sell, and it seemed like they just wanted to take his money, but he didn’t sense that with us.
He listened to our huge collection of video testimonials and took the time to think hard about the decision he knew he needed to make.
Thankfully, Alex made the RIGHT choice, and enrolled onto the life-changing 7-Day Mastery Program.

Before you watch his testimonial, I need to warn you that there’s some really silly playful banter between us all, and yes you do get to see him and Ali, who is one of the top instructors on my team, give me a large dose of cheek!

But on a serious note, I sincerely hope this videos gives you the courage to abort your endless list of excuses and take action once and for all.

Here’s his story:

Testimonial for the 7-Day Mastery Course www.kezia-noble.com from kezia noble on Vimeo.

Find out more about how we can help to change your life and start helping you to get the results you’ve always wanted.
The 7-day Mastery Program is a tailor-made experience which means that you will receive personal one on one training with Kezia and all the expert instructors and wing girls on her team.
Remember to download your FREE brochure HERE.

How to Attract Foreign Women and Learn Languages.

By one of Kezia Noble’s top instructors on the team, Sam Overton.

This article will allow you to increase your options with women, and also improve your language skills with one stroke of the same brush.

Often in London, guys miss out on talking to some of the most beautiful women because of language barriers. I hope to encourage the reader to see these ‘barriers’ instead as platforms. It seems like it should be a lot of effort to try and date a girl who speaks a foreign language to you, right? Why would I pursue someone whom I can not clearly and easily communicate with, and express myself fully too, when there are many other women I could meet and talk to…

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Well, I believe this is not the most effective mindset. Let me use an example to demonstrate my point:

You are in a club in Barcelona, Spain. You can only really talk to your friends, as no one else speaks your language, you would love to talk to all the different people and learn about them and their culture, and socialise, but you can’t. You don’t speak good Spanish. Then, a cute Spanish girl comes up and says hi… Her accent is awful and she is trying to say something to you but you are not sure what. She is searching for the right words, fumbling a little, and just about manages to piece together “hello, what your name it?”… You look at her strangely and try and correct her… She responds “sorry my no english good… I want speak at you” and smiles.
You continue to engage with señorita and she talks more to you, trying her best to make the language work, without shying away or getting nervous. She tells you that she is trying to improve her english and you are her teacher. She radiates a curious warmth through her expression.

Now, think about how you saw this girl, was it annoying or weird? Was it needy or offensive? Was it even particularly difficult? I don’t think so, and if it was, then that is also your mind deciding it to be. Now reverse the situation, you see a small group of Spanish girls in a club in London, they are talking with each other, and look a little lost and out of their comfort zone, they scan the area, watching all the different people, curious about them and their culture, wanting to socialise, but they can’t. They don’t speak good English. You walk up to them and say “Hola, como te llama?”… I think you get the picture, contrary to what you might think, it is actually very charming, confident and romantic to attempt to speak someone’s language when it is not customary of you to do so. People like you to make an effort with them, and you do not need to try at all hard to impress them, as the focus is on the two of you coming to a mutual communicative understanding.

So before you go out, learn a few words in French, Spanish (very commonly spoken, and easy to learn the basics) and/or Italian.. Just a “hello… how are you… what is your name… how long have you been in London…”. These sentences will be very similar in each language, as they are all derived largely from the Latin language… There are even many cross-overs with English words. I have personally been able to learn these languages to the extent that I can hold a normal conversation (in O’neill’s!) from continually attempting to speak with foreign women, and picking up a few words and improving my accent, each time I go out. What’s great is you get into a real flow by doing this, your manner is self-deprecating whilst being confident, any language spoken with an English accent sounds good (or so I’ve heard…), and you are able to meet many more women (and guy friends) that other people are not even bothering to approach or attempt to talk to!

This life-hack goes beyond dating and ‘getting more girls’, and will prepare you for when you go to other countries and speak their languages. It’s a very attractive and mysterious quality to be multi-lingual, and can immensely improve both your dating options, and your quality of life.

To take your first steps towards a more fulfilling way to engage with your next night out, I challenge you to approach just one foreign group of women, and feel free to let me know how it went at

Find out more about the 7-Day Mastery Program where you can get to work one on one with Sam and all the other instructors on my team.
The 7-day Mastery Program is a tailor-made experience which means that you will receive persoanl one on one training with Kezia and all the expert instructors and wing girls on her team.
Remember to download your FREE brochure HERE.

This is one of the best video testimonials I’ve received!

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Jason is a 45 year old divorced man. He recently realised that the last 15 years of his life had been spent focusing on raising his daughter and building up his career.
But he had neglected another important part of his life.
His LOVE LIFE.

He forgot how to chat up women.

He forgot how to even talk to women.

He forgot how amazing it felt to seduce a beautiful woman.

Rather than burying himself into his work even more, and accepting the inevitable outcome of being alone and never finding a partner. He decided to TAKE ACTION.

He could have constructed a tidal wave of excuses to remain alone.

He could have convinced himself that not even the 7-Day Mastery Course would be able to help him.

But instead, he ditched the excuses and put his faith into me and my incredible team of experts, and as a result, he received the most amazing 72 hours of one on one training, that literally BLEW HIS MIND.

Check out his story on this stunning video testimonial that he did with me.

See for yourself how happy Jason is now. The guy can’t stop smiling!

His only regret is that he didn’t do my 7-Day Mastery Course sooner.

Ditch those excuses.

This video was hot on a lovely and warm spring afternoon in West London. The vibe of this video is a little more relaxed compared with my usual ones. I even got my two dogs involved in the action, and thankfully they didn’t bite Mark J.

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In this video, Mark J, who is one of the longest serving members on my team, gives his insights into why the quality of a guy’s attitude is so incredibly important when it comes to approaching and meeting women in the daytime. Mark J has one 7 YEARS of experience in this particular subject, and has helped THOUSANDS of men who have attended my 7-Day Mastery Program. So believe me when I tell you that this guy has EARNED HIS STRIPES.
Enjoy the video!

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

TAKE ACTION.
Start getting REAL results with women on Kezia Noble’s :LIVE EVENTS

Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

This article was written by Sam, who is currently the youngest instructor on my team.
Don’t let his age (22 years old) influence your estimate in regard to his experience! He has helped hundreds of my students who have attended my 7-Day Mastery Program, and that includes both young and more mature men.
In this article, Sam shares his super effective ‘mind management’ action plan that will help you to gain a more positive perspective of the situation when approaching and getting to know a woman.

You don’t even know her… Yet.

One of the biggest obstacles I see men encounter when learning to effectively approach and attract women, is that they project their own images and ideals of what the girls is like onto the girl, before they have met her. These ideals are FALSE NARRATIVES, as our perception of how a person is, is never exactly how that person perceive himself or herself to be.

This often happens with guys who are relatively inexperienced with interacting with beautiful women. The inexperience allows them to believe that a woman with near flawless looks = a near flawless personality, forgetting that every person has their flaws, their nuances, their own unique character. When a man perceives a woman to be of this unattainable quality, he subconsciously create a ‘version’ of her in his head that is UNATTAINABLE not only for him, but for her as well!

Let me explain how this problem exists on TWO LEVELS:

When you view her this way (the beautiful, magical, wonderful angel who would never love an average Joe like me), there is literally NO WAY you can end up talking to her on a human, person to person level – you will become nervous and childish, giddy and needy. This is because in that moment you definitively DO NOT BELIEVE you are good enough for her, based on your unfounded belief that she is TOO GOOD for you, based on her looks alone.

On the second level, she senses (remember, women are extremely intuitive and emotionally aware) your own, and most other men’s imaginary perception of her, and feels on some level that she has to live up to this IMPOSSIBLE EXPECTATION.

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These expectations cause her to feel nervous and under pressure (or just bored and fed up) and like she cannot be her real, goofy self. She puts up defences, and wears a social mask (‘bitch shield’), so as not to let you see her true personality, which inevitably is as human and imperfect as your own.

What she really wants is to be valued as a person, and not as a fetishised or idealised image in your imagination. This mis-identification paradoxically makes her feel insecure, and the ‘bitch shield’ will stop you from seeing the real her, in all her beautiful imperfection!

To combat and overcome this, you must seek to understand her for who she really is. This means NOT:
Creating any prejudices or ideas about what she is like BEFORE you have got to know her
Agreeing with, and laughing at everything she does or says
Giving her constant validation and compliments
Offering to buy her drinks and hanging around her like an excited puppy

Instead:
Seek to know the real her: what can you tell about her from her mannerisms and her body language? Assume information you have gained from reading her body language and her expression: What is her background? Where is she from? Is she creative or logical? Is she introverted or extroverted? Does she have brothers or sisters? Look at her and try to understand her deeply.
Freely challenge her on her opinions and tease her about her nuances, she will like this as it will make her feel human and unique again.
Freely express your own opinions, and take the lead, change the conversation if you are not enjoying the topic. You must be honest with yourself about what you want and what you like.
If she asks for a drink, challenge her! Would she buy you a drink if you asked? Should you give her so much power over yourself before you even know her?
Do not hang around her and follow her all night unless she (or her body language) suggests that she would like you to stay. Feel free to walk away from her, find your friends, find another attractive girl, and tell her you’ll come and find her later. This is attractive as it shows her you have other options, just like she does.

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

TAKE ACTION.
Start getting REAL results with women on Kezia Noble’s :LIVE EVENTS

Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

HOW TO ATTRACT SHY GIRLS

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“How to talk to and attract shy girls”? Is a very common question that I get asked.
In 2009, I invited my sister, Hadassa, to join my elite team of attraction instructors. Allow me to make it crystal clear that this was not a case of nepotism. Hadassa is naturally a shy and introverted girl, and her insights into that type of female mind was an essential asset that I wanted to provide for my students. She is also able to articulate and advise to a high level of detail, exactly what men need to take in consideration and do if they want to keep past the often frustratingly difficult barriers and walls of unhelpful silences that shyer girls tend to put between them and other people.
In this video, Hadassa, shares her thoughts and views on ‘CONNECTION’ and explores the following:
Do opposites attract?
How important is it to have things in common?
Being BOLD and what it will do for you.
Presenting a strong reality
Connecting without having anything in common.

Hadassa is present at all our Bootcamps and also on the life changing 7-Day Mastery Program.

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

TAKE ACTION.
Start getting REAL results with women on Kezia Noble’s :LIVE EVENTS

Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS

The Best Places To Meet Women.

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A growing number of men who come to me for help, are looking for alternative places to meet women other than bars and nightclubs. This could be due to a variety of reasons, such as:
Music is always too loud.
Too expensive
Not age appropriate
Not inline with certain cultural/religious values.
No friends/wing men to go out to bars and clubs with.

Because we help so many men who attend our bootcamps and 7-Day Mastery Program, we have the experience to back up our suggestions. The one’s that I have selected to share with you is a decision based on the results we have helped thousands of men to achieve The places I have selected give the optimal return on the guys time and investment.

PLACES THAT DID NOT MAKE THE LIST (but which are still pretty good)
Parks
Smoking areas
Airports
Buses ( not trains)
Gift stores

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’

TAKE ACTION.
Start getting REAL results with women on Kezia Noble’s :LIVE EVENTS

Alternatively..

SELECT the DVD set or e-book that you feel caters best to your requirements and goals, by making the time to check out the large selection of products that Kezia has created for you to start getting results right away:
PRODUCTS SECTION

Here are just a few of the amazing video testimonials we have received from our past students:

REVIEWS/VIDEO TESTIMONIALS