Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female DATING COACH and attraction expert for men.
She is the most well known Dating Coach in London, New York and Los Angeles. This is thanks to her flawless reputation for getting men REAL results and her best selling book ‘The Noble Art Of Seducing Women’
How to start a conversation with a girl
By the world’s leading female dating expert for men KEZIA NOBLE.
The three most common sticking points that men come to me with are:
a) Getting over their initial nerves of talking to a woman and overcoming approach anxiety
b) Sexual escalation, which is literally the ability and understanding of how to ‘make a move on a woman’ and show her your intention. ( This includes flirting, seduction and going for the KISS)
c) Conversation skills and conversational material.
So what do you say to a woman when you see her across a crowded room?
What is the perfect opening line you can use on that girl who works in the same building as you?
What’s the best way to start a conversation with a girl you really like?
These questions are VERY common, and the good news is that there are a MULTITUDE of ways to start up a conversation and most importantly, make it last long enough for her to gain interest and desire you!
Myself and my team of expert instructors ( both male and female) have been showing men from across the globe how to do this through our regular BOOTCAMPS and SEMINARS and of course on my 7- DAY MASTERY COURSE.
However, if you are unable to attend one of our worldwide events or courses, then here are some tips to help you:
1) Decide on the style of your opening line. Is it going to be DIRECT or INDIRECT? Direct is when you convey your intention towards the girl RIGHT AWAY. This usually means giving the girl a cool and unique compliment. The trick here is to change the subject straight away after you have given her the compliment by introducing yourself. If you leave the bridge too long, it will come across as too intense.
A direct opening line shows a woman that you are confident and if executed correctly it will make her feel good about the interaction.
2. Know your options. If you do not have the confidence yet to explore direct approaches , then using an ‘indirect’ conversation starter can be a great alternative.
Here are some examples
“ Hey, the music here is pretty lame tonight, do you think the DJ takes requests?”
“ Where did you get your shoes from? My friend Katy would love them and it’s her birthday soon so…”
“You always look so happy, even on monday mornings. It’s kinda cool because most people here look so miserable” ( For the office)
“Are there any where good to eat around here”? ( when she makes a suggestion, deliberately disagree with her choice and let the conversation move towards food, cuisine etc.. this surprisingly can lead to countries and holidays VERY quickly)
“My friends wants to have a ‘themed costume party’ this weekend..any suggestions? – PLEASE don’t say Super heroes, because everyone has suggested that”
There are literally hundreds of opening lines both direct and indirect that you can use for ANY occasion on any girl that can be found HERE
3. Replace words with ‘hooks’ Consider whatever her response is as HOOK. This is the main ingredient of the secret that I have shared with many men out there who used to suffer from running out of things to say with women too quickly, or who could never find that killer line to start a conversation!
THE 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM is by far the most powerful and advanced conversation system out there, and is really something ALL men should have if they want to increase their success rate with women.
4. Make sure you make IMPACT. Ever been rejected because you were just too much of a ‘nice guy’? The nice guy is often mistaken for the GREAT GUY, but in fact, the ‘nice guy is just a polite way of describing someone as BLAND, FORGETTABLE and REPLACEABLE.
Again, the 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM and my ATTRACTION TO SEDUCTION DVD set, will FREE you from getting into that dreaded predicament where the girl rejects you because you’re just ‘such a nice guy’ or because she wants to have you ‘as just a friend’
THE ULTIMATE SYSTEM THAT WILL INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN
THE GUY WHO WAS REJECTED FOR BEING TOO NICE, NOW GETS ALL THE WOMEN HE WANTS
ARE YOU A NICE GUY WHO NEVER GETS THE WOMEN?
DO YOU ALWAYS RUN OUT OF THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH WOMEN?
The 10 hook lead system DVD SET will show you EXACTLY what to say to a woman in any situation, and how to keep that conversation going for long enough to increase her desire for you.
Find out more about this amazing system which is changing the success rate of men from across the world HERE