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Most guys believe that meeting women happens in the night. Clubs and bars are full of men earthing for women, however, have you considered meeting women in the daytime? Have you tried it and found it to be difficult?
On our 7 day MASTERY COURSE, we find that our students get much more numbers and ‘instant dates’ when approaching women in the SHOPPING CENTRES and MALLS.
In this video, which was filmed in Las vegas just before our SOLD OUT bootcamp, I go through the reasons for why Shopping mall are AMAZING places to meet girls…

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Approaching confident women by Kezia Noble

Confident and alpha women can often be a paradox, so here is a little inside information to help you guys out there in attracting this type of woman.

Confident alpha women generally prefer men to be direct with them, which is why DIRECT GAME AND DIRECT OPNERS are more likely to work on noticeably confident and alpha women.
Why?
Women who see them selves as in control, confident, strong and alpha usually are attracted to men who can match their confidence at the very least, although they generally prefer men who will be even more confident than themselves. In this case it really is a case of like attracts like.
These type of women usually scare the average man, and although they indeed might get looked at in club, they are rarely approached the way that they secretly wish men to approach them.(this is especially the case in the UK)
Men either avoid these women for fear of being inadequate or they opt to use indirect game, where by they make small talk and shift around awkwardly all the attraction builders they should be using.
See it from her point of view. Although she relishes her alpha attitude and revels in her confident power that leaves men tongue tied, there is also a side of her that YEARNS to be the one who is tongue tide! There is a side of her where she wants to feel as if she needs to prove herself in some way to a man more confident than she is!
It’s an interesting paradox that most men do not realise. Men think that these type of women will be some sort of dominatrix in bed and will get off on the idea of making a man feel sexually inadequate, but in reality, these women are usually fairly submissive in bed and long to have a man take control and make decisions for once!

So next time you see this type of woman in a club or bar, go up to her in front of everyone and say:
“ Your gorgeous- so nice to see a woman who’s exactly my type” give her cheeky smile, and before she can respond, break rapport and move on somewhere else, or continue talking to your friends as if she doesn’t exist.
Rather than allowing her to simply reply with something that will only serve to demonstrate her confidence to you, she will instead take in what you have just said and be looking out for you to come back for PART 2.
Most men are not as confident with her as you would have been, and therefore your confidence and disinterest in her response will be attractive.
You are not asking for her to reply, or for her to even be flattered by your remark, this makes no difference to you. You are also not demonstrating any outcome dependency either (something alpha/confident women love)
So remember: Go in direct, cheeky smile, break rapport and go back for Part 2 when you catch her eye next (which will be happen because she will be intrigued by you)

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“Vacuuming” by ALI

While working on a blog entry on my escalation methods (sexual and non-sexual), I thought I should share a killer advance technique. Something I cannot recommend enough. Something I now constantly do. Something, however, I only started doing when pick up artistry began making sense and produce results. Something most master pick up artists and naturals do: vacuuming.

I stumble upon the whole concept working its magic watching my friend, who is just innately amazing with women and gaming. He would not say more than 10 sentences in a half hour conversation, and leave with her number and kiss most of the time. I did read about vacuuming but never before saw how it works or powerful it was up until then. Personally, I do not vacuum to that extent simply because I love the sound of my voice and happen to thing I come up with awesome stuff almost always. However, I use it with deadly efficiency. So whatís vacuuming in a nutshell?

Vacuuming is an immensely effective ëinvestment regulationí tool that can be best described as creating conversational and emotional void (emptiness). This does not mean sapping the life out of the person you are talking to or exhausting conversational topics. It simply means keeping your mouth and emotions under control. By using it, you never stop running out of things to say and at the same time, make deep connections.

When two people engaged in a two-way interaction, they communicate verbally and non-verbally on various levels i.e. logical, emotional, and sexual. Most men force an interaction with constant stream of conversational topics or routines (logic level communication). Even worse, they show undeserved interest or ruffled by womenís reactions / responses (emotion level communication). Simply flooding the distance between him and her with conversation and emotions, and drowning her possible attraction in the process.

Conversational Vacuuming:
If you find yourself doing the most of the talking throughout the interaction, you are investing too much. Possibly boring her to death talking. Most men suffer from this disease. Cure is simple yet takes courage to apply: shutting up. Thus giving her the opportunity (or gently pressurising her) to invest verbally. By creating silences, you put pressure on her to fill the gap thus encouraging her to invest in you. There are few different ways of going about this.

1) Asking a big or bold question. Keep eye contact and do not speak until you get a LONG and SATISFACTORY enough of an answer. You may have to probe if she does not comply with ëcome on tell meí, etc.
2) Make a fun and high impact small conversation and go silent. Do not speak until she initiates the conversation.

Let me give you a bad example (this conversation was between a recent student of mine and a girl in Aqua)

A: What do you do?
Laura: I am a student. I ñ
A: Licensed party animal huh.
Laura: (smiles) I ñ
A: Where do you go clubbing?
Laura: Westend mostly. Like ñ
A: I like Westend
Laura: Do you?
A: What are you upto tomorrow?
Laura: Not much. I ñ
A: I love your hair
Laura: Thanks

I cringed few times because he wouldnít let her talk. He would constantly interrupt her. It was his first set, nervousness is understandable. If only he took his time and was relaxed, conversation would have looked something like this

A: What do you do?
Laura: I am a student. I study law
A: Licensed party animal huh
Laura: (smiles) I love partying but next year is my final year so I will have to be a good girl by then.
A: Love the fact that you accept being a bad girl… (pause) Thatís sexy.
Laura: Haha I am a good girl.
A: (give her a suspicious look)
Laura: Really I am! I take care of my mates when we go out. I donít drink much either.
A: Hmm…(pause) tell me your most unforgettable partying experience.
Laura: Uhm… I canít think of anything right now.
A: (keep it quiet and maintain eye contact)
Laura: Uhm… I went to Ibiza last summer and it was amazing!
A: (keep on vacuuming)
Laura: There were 10 of us…

OR

A: What do you do?
Laura: I am a student. I study law
A: Swell, what do you want to be when you grow up?
Laura: Haha I am already grown up!
A: And? (Vacuuming)
Laura: A lawyer of course.
A: (Keep on vacuuming with good eye contact)
Laura: Uhm, I am really interested in media law so it will be in that field… I would be working with artists, celebrities. It would be so much fun… I donít know, I think it will be. Heard there is good money in it too so yeah thatís what I want to be when I grow up haha. What about you?

Do you see the difference? I usually have a fun chat for few minutes and then just keep it quiet until she starts the interaction again. Then I act like a supermodel and only respond with short sentences. Feels like no other to turn the tables around. Vacuuming sometimes means keeping it quiet up to five ñ ten minutes. It is tough and you feel pressurised to fill the void. However, if you can make peace with silences, you will have unmitigated success.

I used total vacuuming in a recent date. We met and got drinks. I asked how her day was and only opened my mouth for ëhmmí, ëokí, ëinterestingí, ëtell me moreí within the next 20mins. Then uttered a good paragraph and kept my mouth shut for another 15mins. Then kissed her and we started making out. All in all, I only talked approximately 5mins during the date that lasted over an hour. I believe she made out with me that easily because she couldnít cope with my silences. After exhausting her logical and emotional investment reserves, she used her sexuality on me.

My wingman tried the same thing. His date was happy to talk initially, then she got agitated and asked if he was bored. When he didnít bulge, she got really angry and left for toilet. He dealt with this emotional friction by putting her in her place nice and easy. She hastily apologised and was only happy to keep on investing. They passionately made out in his car.

I was going to talk about emotional vacuuming as well, however it is too powerful of a tool to cover in a nutshell. Decided it would be best to keep it for our bootcamps and residentials. Have fun with this and let me know your experiences.

Peace

Ali

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The 10 hook lead system is the much talked about system, which helps men to build solid interactions with women.

The 10 hook lead system is a unique, practical and highly effective way to help men with the following:

- “Running out of things to say too soon”

- “Stopping them from asking too many questions which only results in making the interaction more like an ‘interrogation’ rather than a natural and fun ’2 way’ conversation”

- “Helping guys transition from the opening line into a full blown conversation on a RAPID scale”

- “Helping men to READ a woman” (understanding what she is thinking and why she is saying things which do not reflect what she is feeling all the time)

- “How to DEMONSTRATE HIGH VALUE”

- “Creating conversation patterns which can work in the mans favour”

- “Turning negative moments in to positive outcomes (i.e what to do if the girls does not laugh at your joke-and making it work in your favour)

The 10 hook lead system also gives a powerful and HONEST insight in to the female mind, and as the old saying goes..”knowledge is power”

After the release of the book “15 steps to becoming a master seducer” which explained in great detail how the 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM works,there was a huge demand for a DVD format of the system to be released.
The feedback received on this 2 part DVD set, has been unbelievable. The first stock ran out within 4 days of it’s initial release!

The 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM is a powerful method anyone can learn, and will take any mans level of success with women to a whole new level.

For more information about the 10 hook lead system DVD set go to:

10 HOOK LEAD INFORMATION

Knowing yourself (including flaws) part 2 BY KEZIA

In my last blog post entitled “know yourself” I touched on the subject of understanding and knowing what your flaws are in order to demonstrate high value.
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t work on fixing your flaws on a personal and private level BUT what I am saying is that, by being aware of them and understanding them you will be able to demonstrate high value more effectively.
This is something that I learned from past experience when somebody tries to challenge me in a confrontational manner.
EXAMPLE:

The other day, a woman sat in a group I was with, and I could tell she was observing me intensely, with a pre-conceived idea of who I was. Eventually, she snapped, and said to me trimaphantly.
“You know what..I think you are a bit of a bitch”
What was my response?
“Darling, you haven’t seen nothing yet..I can be worse than this”
Her mouth dropped to the floor and she was unable to respond quickly.
Eventually she came back with:
“Well, don’t you think that’s a bad thing?”
I responded:
“ Depends in which circumstances and it depends what your definition of a bitch is. I am extremely kind and honourable to people who I love and who are good to me, but if someone is unkind or a threat to me in someway, then yes I can retaliate on an unimaginably ‘ bitchy’ scale. I hope that answers your question”
After that, she backed down and gave me the same respect as she was giving other members of the group.

In this case, I had demonstrated to this particular woman, that I was 100 percent aware of what some people would consider to be a FLAW in my character. I also demonstrated the fact, that she has not told me anything I am not aware of already.
I actually learned this from a man I dated a while back.
I once said to him that he was too concerned with his appearance, in other words that he was a little bit too vain. He responded to my observation with: “You only just noticed? – What took you so long?” I of course laughed, and never mentioned it to him again. It was a flaw in his character that he had no intention of changing on my behalf, and it posed the question: WAS IT ACTUALLY A FLAW? Or just a matter of opinion?
He was sharp enough to realise that my question was not sincere, and it was intended to be antagonistic.
If he had done what most men would have done in this situation which would have been for example:
“Really, do you think that?..Why do you think that?”
Or
“ No I’m not like that, I’m really not”
Then this would have put me on a higher level than him. He would have been explaining him self to me, or proving him self in some way, and I would have taken the role of the JUDGE, which consequently would have given me higher value, and would have lessened his value considerably.

If someone points out something about your character in a sincere manner, and you consider that person to be trustworthy and close enough to you, to bring up such a point, then demonstrating high value is not really an issue in this particular circumstance.
However, if someone is deliberately trying to be antagonistic, and is trying to deliberately take away your value, then only by knowing yourself entirely can you re-balance the levels of power.

In my next blog I will discuss “UNAPOLOGETIC VULNERABILITY” or as Ross Jeffries calls it “MY UNAPOLOGETIC TRUTH”

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One of the hook leads that I teach on my 10 hook lead system is “THE ANECDOTE HOOK LEAD”
This hook lead is often left out, as a lot of men feel they will bore the woman, or that they are simply no good at telling a story.
The anecdote hook lead is actually a very useful hook lead that I encourage all my students to master, as it can carry the conversation well and is an ideal way for the man to share his experiences and convey his personality to the woman.

Here is an example of a fantastic story teller, the legendary Richard Burton ( a true alpha man if ever there was one)
Notice how he is telling what is essentially a very quick story, but is expressing it in EPIC PROPORTIONS.

So what makes Richard Burton tell this story so well?

1. He clearly understands the power of timing. He allows his audience to digest and visualize in their own personal way his experience, before moving on to the next part.

2. He uses his facial expression, gestures and voice to the full in order to make his story captivating (This also demonstrates his confidence in him self)

3. He adds tons of detail, which is something that particularly works well on women.

4. He makes fun of himself without coming across BETA.

Here is another story he tells,(skip to 2:08 ) but this time the nature of the story is more serious. He manages to emotionally connect with his listeners, forcing them to willingly ‘emotionally invest’ in them, which is an extremely powerful skill.

The ANECDOTE hook lead is explained in great detail, on my 10 hook lead system (click below)

THE 10 HOOK LEAD SYSTEM INFORMATION PAGE

If you want to start increasing your success rate with women, then make sure you check out the 7-day Mastery course or the Bootcamps that Kezia and her team are holding all year round.

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Become a NATURAL pick up artist BY SHANE (Instructor on inner game)

Being a natural in this game is a natural course of progression because being a natural in my opinion is synonymous with being a REAL MAN. Let me explain.

Being a Man is really a reversal of the feminization of males in society today. There’s been a serious campaign to demasculate all males, . The average male today is only a “mere shadow” of what a real man is supposed to be, which was systematically done….but that’s another blog;-)
In other words, the average male is a “metrosexual,” which in my opinion is nothing more than a euphemism for saying that he is a CONFUSED man who is “lacking or imperfectly developed.” But this doesn’t apply to a Real Man! Look around you, observe what you see on tv, even your peer groups…its happening, right in front of you, maybe even to you…my hope is that you are not too far gone, and if so we’re gonna try and re-programme that thought process or even give a glimpse of light at the end of the tunnel.

You see, in this thing we call the Game, you have to pay close attention; everything mirrors the masculine-feminine; active-submissive, originator-nourisher, leader- follower dynamic Polarities of Nature. EVERYTHING! But especially the dynamic between male and females. And a True man in my opinion over-stands this intimately! He knows his true value in the game as a man. Well what do w mean by value? What constitutes? He overstands that he has two vitally important seeds that he imparts to any woman he chooses to deal with. Firstly his literal seed. i.e his sperm, the spark that creates that he implants inside her womb; and secondly, his psychological and mental seed. His idelogies, his game so to speak. The spark of knowledge he implants inside her mind.

I heard it once said that one of the main purposes that having game serves, is that it allows us men to reclaim who and what we are truely supposed to represent, and this, in turn, allows us to reach our fullest potential in the game as men driven by purpose, Leaders, Originators and Innovators because this is what the feminine is attracted to in whatever forms it manifest, from Humans to goose!

So the reason why those reading this who either are on the level they want to be in this game, or who may not be where they’d like to be at this present moment in time with regards to their game, would want to be better and stronger in this area, again, in my opinion is because you recognize (consciously or subconsciously) that the more natural masculine qualities you posses (i.e., wisdom, strength, courage, integrity, purpose, etc.) the closer you get to becoming a real man. Bold, fearless and unapologetic. In turn the more powerful and attractive you will become to women. Every man should aim to be that guy not only for women but because it is more honest and true to his nature. But in relation to the female persuasion these are the only kind of males that women truly respect anyway.

For me there is an art to the game although it can be fun it isn’t a recreational sport. It is a mentality; not only is it philosophical but it is also idealogical. It is a way of life that should enhance your sense of self-worth which allows you to have total awareness in all aspects of your life. If your mind isn’t right you are in a recession. If you game is tight you are always going prosper .
True naturals, True to the game Men are champions, it takes a lot of attacks to your ego and pride to be confident in the face of adversity. But eventually you will begin to realize that dealing with women is only a small percentage of what a Man does. The game is layered and is based on a foundation of unified theory. As you gain confidence you will realize that the correct mentality and state of mind really is everything. (probably not new to some of your ears) but I can personally assure you, the right mentality is more important in the areas of life that really matter.

Some may say he is a man when he has reached a certain
age, some say when you have achieved certain material things, tangibles, job etc. But in my opinion none of these things, however, are
characteristics of a man only various ways he expresses himself.. Manhood is a process, a
transition from maleness. Pay attention to whats going on around you, stay in tune and aware. It is lack of attention to detail and no discipline which will run you towards bitterness and delusion. The game is about putting yourself in the best position to achieve YOUR life goals, whatever they may be, which should be more than just these women….the irony is I get sex thrown at me more now that I really am indifferent to the outcome and are less focused on them per se as I am on other aspects of my life. But in order for you to be on your way you must first take these women off these imaginary pedestals and put yourself on it;-)

Keep learning and Keep Evolving

Shane

Shane is a regular instructor on all our live events
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ONE BIG NO NO!!! by ELEANOR

Now for all you wannabe pick up artists out there I have got a very important insight for you. I have recently trained a couple of men who suffer from ‘over sensitive syndrome’. In a role play situation with the student, I maybe acting slightly aloof and as a result of a throw away comment sent in the man’s direction, I receive an unnecessarily sharp tongued remark. Which immediately puts my back up, makes me feel pissed off and want to do nothing but walk away. He has formed an image of himself in my mind, and take it from me most women would come to the same conclusion, emotionally unstable, weak and unable to take criticism on any level.

Remember you are approaching the woman, so you are interested in her, she may not be immediately interested in you and it is your job to change that. She may be critical of you, she may try and give you the brush off, do not retaliate to this as though it has put your nose out of joint. Emotional weakness and a weakness of character are traits that are not attractive. You have to ‘roll with the punches’, turn the situation around.

An example of a disastrous conversation…….
Man:- Some guy just told me that my shirt looks gay, do you think it does?
Women:- Mmmmm no, it’s pink, but I think you can carry it off.
Man:- Oh, so you like my shirt?
Woman:- It’s alright.
Man:- Alright? Well I think what your wearing is all right!

Within the first couple of sentences of the conversation the guy has taken offence to a throw away comment that the women gave concerning his shirt. She never asked his opinion on her clothes, he asked her opinion, so he has to be ready to take whatever she throws at him.

This is a better way of dealing with the situation……..
Man:- Some guy just told me that my shirt looks gay, do you think it does?
Women:- Mmmmm no, it’s pink, but I think you can carry it off.
Man:- Yeah I suppose you have to be a certain type of gent to carry off pink, sophisticated, comfortable in your own skin, self assured……..
Woman:- Really, and I suppose you would place yourself in those categories?
Man:- Well that would be quite arrogant, and I would never regard myself as that, but on this occasion, yes.

This conversation took the original subject area in a completely different direction; it kept the conversation light, it had lots of humour and broke away her indifference to him. It also showed that he didn’t take himself too seriously, obviously it should be delivered in jest.

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DEEP CONNECTION DVD set

Just to let everyone know that the DEEP CONNECTION DVD set is available.
Since I have been so busy with events in the USA as well as the UK, I have not had any time to promote this. But even though there has been no promotion, the DVDS are running out fast!
There are only 50 left at the current price, so my advice is to get hold of this set ASAP.
For more information about my DEEP CONNECTION DVD set click on the photograph below

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Get your dvd here

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Here is an interview I did for pualingo.com

“This week we have an exclusive interview with Kezia Noble, an instructor for PUA Training and the world’s leading female pickup instructor. Some of the juicy topics covered in the interview:
Kezia tells us about her experience day-to-day as a PUA trainer
Kezia explains how pickup has changed her life
Kezia reveals the secrets of the best naturals
Kezia shares how to pickup her model girlfriends off a cold approach
Kezia talks about her upcoming book, 15 Steps To Becoming A Master Seducer!”

Here is Part 1 of 6

enjoy..

KEZIA is a regular instructor on all live events including the 12 hour PUA TRAINING bootcamp with, and of course the life changing 7-day PICK UP mastery course PUA RESIDENTIAL

For more information about the PUA TRAINING BOOTCAMP with Kezia and her team go to:

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