I am stunned time and again in my personal life by the spinelessness of men, ‘The Alpha Male’ seems to me a rare species.
I was recently told a story by a friend that a relative of hers was trying to set her up on a blind date, she is an attractive and intelligent women that you would think, any man should jump at the opportunity of taking her out. He requested her friendship on Facebook and then informed the middle person (her relative) that he didn’t feel comfortable with blind dates. My immediate reaction was ‘what a gutless wonder’ ‘pathetic’ and more over very unattractive, no spontaneity or ability to take a risk and put himself out there.
Sadly however this is so common and increasingly disappointing, the reality is the number of strong independent women is growing and the number of strong independent men seems to be dropping. Just because women are strong it doesn’t mean they want the roles reversed, we still need strong men and crave the feeling of safety with a man.
This is where I come to ‘The Alpha Male’, this is not a man that is controlling and over bearing, it is a man that is self-assured physically and emotionally within himself, not having to dominate externally as his confidence seeps through automatically. He is in control of himself therefore in control of his surroundings, he is not easily flustered and is willing to take risks and if they do not bare fruit he will quickly bounce back and move on to the next challenge. Obviously this can be translated into interactions with females but equally it could be situations at work, leisure activities and with family and friends.
An important part of the ‘Alpha Male’ package is also ambition, I don’t necessarily mean in the work sense although it could be but in the whole of his life. Something that is very attractive to women is passion, the ‘Alpha Male’ is not a plodder through life, he realises that life is a gift and that he has so many opportunities to experience a great deal. He may have an interesting hobby or two, anything from cultivating fruit and vegetables to sky diving in as many tropical locations as possible. Whatever it may be it gives him an extra dimension of interest. When you are comfortable within yourself you relax, that is tangible and will be picked up on.
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