Verbal Escalation 1:

by ALI

My interpretation of escalation is taking an interaction forward. Whether sexual or non-sexual. You have a destination in mind, and you are taking charge to lead those you are engaged with towards it, inexorably.

In most cases, you will find yourself starting very well with an interaction only for it to lose its momentum somehow. This is because most of us expect a divine intervention to happen and show us where we should go next. And all that good vibe and effort ebbs away. You opened her, great but what next? You transition to comfort, great but what next? You sexually escalated, great but what next? Escalation is about answering ëwhat next?í. Knowing exactly what you want to do, where you want to take the interaction to. You must have read about how significant it is to ëlead an interactioní, and it is true. You also need to know where you are leading the interaction to.

In this blog I want to share a youtube clip with you guys that demonstrates how verbal escalation works. It is a clip showing infamous Russell Brand sexually escalating on a TV interview. He is a master conversationalist and demonstrates how powerful verbal escalation is in getting physical. My way of verbal sexual escalation is almost identical so this clip will be hugely beneficial to those who kept asking me to do an in-field video showing how it is done. I have shot some but sound quality is dismal, working on it so in the meantime check this out.

The clip:

He knows exactly where he wants to take the interaction to. From the first moment onwards he dispenses with patterns; he breaks patterns throughout. He does not follow a set of rules, a pattern. He bulls forward, diffuse, side step and go forward again. Throughout he demonstrates high value. He does deliver verbal sexual escalation with a non-sexual verbal tone ñ making it the more powerful for that reason. This is the formula for verbal sexual escalation: forward ñ diffuse – (and infrequent ëside stepí) ñ forward. I will break this down in the Acceleration Event (19th March 2011) so you will be able to escalate like Mr Brand

He took a risk with directly sexually escalating. Then diffused the situation with improvised humour. Then all of a sudden left the subject he could easily tap into for more sexual humour and changed the subject (side step). Push and pull. Then he took sexual escalation forward, and diffused it with humour again. Changed the subject and didnít make another sexual innuendo for some time despite the great opportunities to do so. By doing so, kept her second-guessing what he would do next. This went on for some time as you have seen in the video, and before he physically escalated, he implanted the idea “sit on my lap and see if we can get you pregnant” Finally he made his move when he knew there wouldnít be any resistance. He dealt with her objections (you have a girl friend, we are on TV, etc.) very deftly. And went for the kiss. That kiss would have sealed the deal, she would have been his in a club or a bar or whatever.
This is the tip of the iceberg, so watch out this space and make sure to be at the biggest pick up event of the year so I can teach you all these in great detail.

Peace

ALI

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One Response to “Verbal escalation part 1 by ALI”

1. bobbyjr Says:
   January 23rd, 2011 at 8:41 pm

   Thanks Ali, this is a quality post

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